Let’s Wait A While–Throw Back Post

I was listening to my XM radio today and Janet Jackson’s “Let’s wait awhile”  played and it made me think of this post. As I listened to the words that was from 1986 I can’t help but think how 16 years later it’s change to Can I Be Your Busted-It-Baby or Cuddie Buddy. 

What happened?

I heard some guys say they don’t like girls who make them wait for the snacks cakes. Then there’s other guys who say they’ll only have a good time with girls who give up there cupcakes so freely. They say they’ll think she lets everybody touch her cupcakes that easily. I think this is very confusing most of the time it’s been said a girl knows if she wants to let you peel the wrapper off within the first two weeks.   Personally I say no! What could you know about a person within two weeks beside there looks that will make you think he’s worthy of having a long talk with Vivian? In two weeks you barely had one first date if that. Now of days a date is consider a call after eight asking you to come over to his place to watch a movie.

What happen to the courtship that was in place in 1986 where a guy asked you out at a decent hour and had you home before dark? I think we do move to fast in these days, that’s why I’m feeling keyshia Cole’s new song. I think she nail it about taking your time or wasting it. 

It’s so many pimp talkers out here now you really don’t know what your laying down with. I think also it’s a good idea to take time to get to know if you and this person are headed in the right direction in life. I think anything worth having is worth waiting for. I can’t call it. I guess it’s just a judgement call, sometimes rushing can be a bad thing or that person turns out to be your husband / wife. I feel like we drill in our daughters head if a boy likes you he can wait until your ready.  But as adult women we feel the need to rush in the bed to keep him or he’ll be on to the next one.

On a personal note I rushed and opened my business up without doing any research and I made so many unnecessary mistakes by moving to fast. So through my learning experience I really feel like you need to pump your brakes and research what your jumping into. Get to know and find out clearly what you are getting yourself involved in. You might not want to be bother with what you find out.

Do you think we move to fast?