Can A Person Be A Home Wrecker?

In my opinion a home wrecker is a man or a woman—- A person that comes into your relationship unannounced. Even though one of the guilty parties is your spouse the other party has no clue who you are. They normally find out by spying or maybe even a phone call from the home wrecker themselves.

Now I know some people say that no one can break up a home but I disagree—-

When a person cheats on there spouse you can not assume their not happy at home, they very well can be. Sometimes people cheat because they can, because there just hoes or have a sex addiction. Yes some people cheat because there not happy at home, I don’t condone cheating and I think people need to leave that relationship before seeking a new one.  In my eyes home wreckers are people you know that stab you in the back.  Home wreckers are woman and men who know about you but still chose to sleep with your spouse.

The first contact of blame should be your partner, they are the ones who promised to be faithful and not cheat. However my problem is when a women / men sit right in your face and lie through there yellow teethe about not sleeping with your mate when they are. That’s when I call a bytch a home wrecker. I feel like if your bold enough to lie down with him than man up and admit it. Yes we all have intuition, a gut feeling that tells you something ain’t clean in the milk. But the power of love, great sex and just wanting to keep your family together will over shadow that any day. 

It’s confusing when you’re in love; you don’t want to believe that the person you gave your heart to will do you like that. The situation gets harder when you have that spouse of yours in your ear lying through his/her yellow teethe about how it’s not like that. They’ll go on and say “I’ll call them right now I ain’t cheating” than your there confused as hell. They’ll contact the person who you think their cheating with, and there cooperating cause he/she called them earlier and spit game in there ear. Now you’re forced to believe them or you want to believe them! But it’s all a lie and you’re the one getting hurt at the end when the truth comes out.

So yes I believe you’ve wreck that home by lying and not keeping it real, you’ve gave that person a false grain of hope. That shyt ain’t cool, just keep it real. If you call yourself sleeping with another person spouse just tell them. Yeah I’m fycking em now what? Than that gives the person a choice to say fuck you bytch keep getting my crumbs. Or they’ll say, you can have them I ain’t got time for this shyt.

But sitting back covering up an affair is wrong and I do think that is wrecking a home, just keep it real.

What are your thoughts? Do you believe a person can be a home wrecker?