Like A Boy—- Do I Women Bash?

Post By: Nichelle Walker

I must say, this ever so changing world is a mess in my eyes. I remember ten years ago when things were much different. I had a talk with some of my girlfriends about a post I was debating in, on Necole Bitchie site. It was about asking a man to marry you, I started the conversation off by saying I wouldn’t do it period. And I will not ask a man to be my husband— but that’s just me. I was actually surprised to see how many women said they would get on a bending knee and ask a man for his hand in marriage. I guess with women basically ruling the world now it shouldn’t be a surprise.

However one my girlfriends said to me, that I always women bash and that I think a man is the leader—something like that. She said that I feel that women can not do the same things as men and I’m wrong. I defended myself my telling her she was wrong, but before I went to sleep it wore on my mind. Do I women bash? It pondered my mind and the only answer I could come up with was, maybe sometimes I do. But I do feel a woman should carry herself in a certain way, so maybe in a way it is woman bashing to some.

I don’t call people out there names are try to put people down for the things they do. If you like it I love it. But I don’t agree with what society has become, I don’t agree with how our generation of women are setting example for the next generation. Some woman say that, there only worried about there child; but I don’t I worry about everyone. What about our little cousins, nieces and their friends? Do we not worry about them? I feel like we have a responsibility to them as well. Maybe I’m living in my own world and haven’t caught up with the times and the turth be told I will never catch up.

The new era of women are fine with me, if you want to seek, concur and get your man, go ahead. If you fell in love deep enough to ask a man for his hand in marriage go ahead. I guess that’s some women way of being aggressive(idk). When I write my posts I don’t intend to woman bash I just write how I feel. I don’t feel like women can do the same things as men, yeah of course we can run the streets like them. Sleep around like them, work the same jobs as them, and hang out at the club like them. We can pimp like them, talk like them, walk like them, dress like them. We can be just like them. But the truth is we will NEVER be them. Men penetrate and women receive. No matter how many men you lay with you will never penetrate them (unless he’s a DL brother and you’re getting him in the behind with a dildo Yuk) you will always receive them. Now on the other hand men can receive (wouldn’t want one) and penetrate, women can only receive.

Men don’t have to go on Murray looking for there baby fathers— however there still no judgment from me. Be any women you choose to be, live your life how you want to live it. I just don’t walk through life thinking I can do the same things as men do. 

That’s just me so I don’t mean to women bash, but you can’t knock the way I feel and I can’t knock the way the world is.

It is what It is………………..