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    Mar
    23
    2009

    Brain Washed

    Written by Nichelle at 4:50 pm

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    I believe that most of the women around the world have been brain washed, over the weekend I carried on conversations about life. And I’m convinced that half the women in America have been brain washed into believing that they have to settle for less.

    Now my first pet peeve is how black women keep screaming about a man shortage, and how they have to share men. This is the stupidest shit I heard by far. First of all I do not believe there is a man shortage, I believe that this has been brain washed into our heads to settle for anything that comes are way. Who said that we all had to date black men anyway? Why would you lower you standards to share a man instead of dating outside of your race? I would get wifed up by a white men before I settle to share a black men any day. I’m not being racist here, but a black man will run and get them an Amber in a minute. So do we sit around screaming there are not enough men so we have to share and fight. Please that’s some bullshit the system have brain washed into the black women heads and I ain’t buying it.

    Secondly I hate when women say “I don’t owe her anything unless she my family or friends.” More brain washed bullshit. First of all, we should want more for ourselves than to be a man’s side piece of ass. So no you don’t know his wife, but the fact that you know he’s married should be enough for you tell that ninja to keep on moving. Just because a dog comes sniffing don’t mean you let him get a lick. Send his trifling ninja azz back to his owner because if we as women stood as one and did this, it would be less cheating.  So no you don’t owe his wife nothing, but just out of the sake of sisterhood we should want to turn down the advances of a married man, one because we are sticking together and two you should know you deserve better. I always tell my friends it is not my responsibility to make a married ninja happy period. Don’t come around my way talking about how unhappy you are—because I don’t give a fluck. I will not make it my business to make another woman’s men happy period.

    And my last pet peeve even though I have more is the misused word Hater, first of all just because I don’t like something does not make me a hater. Because I don’t like the fact that certain things are happening does not make me a hater. Just because I said I don’t like her outfit, shoes, hair (etc) does not make me a hater. This is another form of brain washing, it makes people believe even when there dead wrong people are hating on them. If I don’t want to worship a ex-whore than I don’t have to! That’s my prerogative, I don’t have to like the fact that she used to be a bi-stripper but found the Lord now. It’s like okay good for her, next—-that does not make me a hater. It does not make me a hater when I call something like a see it. If I see a woman that used to be a call girl and I call her a whore that does not make me a hater. The term for it is called opinions and we all have them. Hating it what people do to Beyonce, say they don’t like the girl and never met her. But if somebody doesn’t like her music that’s there opinion it does not make them a hater, so let’s stop this brain washing that’s going on.


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    2 Comments to “Let The Past Be The Past”

    1. zillz says:
      March 22, 2009 at 10:11 am

      I agree, the past has to be taken into account to an extent. However, I always believe that you never truly know 100% of any individual. As long as the person isn’t harming anybody, I say give it a chance. You just have to see how it plays out. The person may have changed. People grow and mature. Or perhaps they see something in you to make them want to get their act together. Sometimes you really do have to let the past be the past.

    2. Nichelle Walker says:
      March 22, 2009 at 2:28 pm

      Yeah you will never know them 100% but when I look at the news and see a woman get killed and her kids and the dude was a conveted murderer and his ex-wife said he tried to kill her, i’m like she should have did a back ground check.. But as a woman I feel like, these woman are crazy I mean my cousin my god the women he meets they hop in his ride because his rims are nice 26′ and bust him down and shallow and I’m like damn what dude want’s a chick like this of course he never’s calls them back but there is some poor sucker that will wife her up without knowing who she was, is that fair–idk I guess it is what is it is–but aids is REAL word

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