Let The Past Be The Past

With so much ho shyt going on in the world I had to come to conclusion that most of the men on this earth have lost all there mind. Last night I was thinking to myself, all this talk about ho’s need love to and people make mistakes and her past is her past, it made me think of this post. Do you want to know your partners past? Does there past even matters to you?

For me, yes it matters—I want to know where a dude comes from, what type of morals and values he has imbedded in him.  I need to know if he has a criminal history or if he has multiple baby mommas. So yes if I hook up with a new dude, yes I will ask question about his past and expect the truth from him. Hell people are crazy these days and I feel like it’s too much stuff going on in the world to say let the past be the past. I think you should know who you are getting yourself involved with period. I’m not a man and don’t think like one, but as a woman I think you need to know who you are letting into your house and especially if there lying in your bed.

I know guys say they don’t care if a girl has a past because it is just that, the past. But at the end of the day sometimes your past can creep back up and hunt you. I think we should be honest about our past because this is a small world and you never know who you will bump into. I can think of a time when my cousin was dating this girl and she tried to act all innocent and pure. Well she came to our family reunion and she bump into one of my other cousins that she was busting down with.  She was so embarrassed and I felt bad for her, but that showed me as a woman-you really can’t be out there like that because you never know who knows who. My cousin gave all the low down how she be busting him down and how she was known on the block-I couldn’t believe it myself because she seemed so sweet. That taught me that whores have a way of trying to cover up who they are, to get what they want. So all I can say is be careful because the backyards you roam in now my come back and bite you in the ass once you get your life right.

What are your thoughts? Should you let your partner past be there past?