We haven’t slept together, because once again its LD. He is supposed to come see family up here this summer, and i am supposed to go c my fam in his state this summer. So i hope to get my back twisted out VERY VERY soon lol. Dirty minds think alike lol

Well firstly assume means ass-out- of-me- no disrespect though lol

but you can’t say what a man is ready for until you sit down and talk with him. Our problems as women we always over think stuff and try to figure shyt out with out asking. One thing about us if a man tells us one thing we try to twist it to best suit us. If you have never had that talk with him than how would you know? don’t be scared to talk, I feel like in the beginning you should talk about everything and anything so you two can get to know each other. But don’t start assuming you know what’s on his mind are what goals he has set for himself.

Ask girlie just sit down and say where do you see your self in the next three years and go from there. That way you’re asking him about his goals period not that one thing. But what he wants out of life and there are younger men who have goals and mature, is his father around? It plays a part in the man he is. He might not want to be a old dad, but how would you know unless you ask him. So just ask him while you guys are chilling, where he sees himself in the next___years, and ask him what is his thoughts on kids and tell him you’re not ready now but before you get in to deep you want to know if you two are on the same page.

You might be passing up your husband because you are assuming the worse and I understand why. And I learn things from my ten year old son so no matter how old the person is you can learn something from them, no matter if it’s good are bad. and plus the age difference is a bonus sex wise at least he will be able to keep that back caving – teehee lol lmao I know my mind is dirty,,, lol