A Letter Of Apology To Alicia Keys

Well last night I was talking to my friends and they told me I was wrong for calling Alicia Key’s a bucket head on my site. They said that Alicia Key’s didn’t owe Mashonda anything and she was free to do what she wants. I went on to say “well how can you appear to be about sisterly love  and do something like that?” They advised me just because she slept with a married man does not mean she isn’t about sisterly love. They said that the only person to blame is Swiss Beats and Alicia was not at any fault. So I told them I disagree with it and I’m not going to cosign or glorify cheating, then I was told— it’s the way things are. And that was one statement that I agreed with, it is the way things are these days–and I don’t blame Alicia for Swiss Beats wrong doing, he is the guilty party and he was the one who made the vow to forsake all others. However the last time I checked it takes two to cheat, and I don’t care about what type of problems you have in a relationships cheating is wrong in my eyes. So it made me think of all the others who may felt I’m wrong for calling her a bucket head, or my comment about women being bucket heads. Well I apologize if I upset any of you or you felt disrespected, however I don’t down play my mistakes on this site. I do write about them and I’m not ashamed of them either, I don’t stand on a soap box and preach the gospel and I’m not a holy roller. Yes we all make mistakes but it’s a difference when you make a mistake and hurt yourself but doing things to hurt others in my eyes is scandalize.

I have my feelings and opinions about this subject just like everyone else does, am I wrong for not cosigning this? I just sit back and look at this world in disbelief, I can’t believe the way things are. After my conversation last night I came to a conclusion there’s nothing that can be done it is what it is! So instead of getting mad lets just tell our daughters there’s no hope for a husband. There’s no hope for a family just baby Momma status, there’s no hope for a great relationship just take what you can get.Tell her that she will share a man, advise her that a woman owes her nothing and can sleep with her man anytime that she wants to. Get her prepared and make her understand that her man can leave her at anytime because he’s found better. Let’s start telling them the truth, that it’s a dirty game out here—that the man she’s laying next to will cheat and don’t get mad just get over it and move on. Let’s tell them that it’s okay for her to marry a man and him wake up and leave her, besides it’s her fault he cheated anyway–because she wasn’t making him happy. Lets tell our daughters the truth about life because if we accept this as women now— if it’s cool now, then it will only get worse so lets get our daughters ready for this so they can already expect it and not be so shocked. 

So to Alicia Keys and all the others who feel I shouldn’t judge and I was wrong, my bad if you think I’m being judgmental. I apologize for thinking about the bigger picture here, but I guess if we train our daughters now for what we have left of a relationship they will be able to swallow it better. At the end of the day only God can judge you, me and whoever else. But wrong will always be wrong no matter how much sugar you put in it to make it sweeter it is what it is, wrong! I know we will never respect one another especially when I hear a woman sing a line “And all my sisters Coming together Say, “Yes, I will” “Yes, I can” (Superwoman Alicia Keys) If coming together means sleeping with another woman’s husband then I hate to see what being enemies would mean I’m just saying..