Gossip Bite: Nas & Kelis Are Done?

Well the papers have been filed after so many months of whispers about sex tapes, abuse and cheating. Kelis went and filed for divorce, I for one am not happy about a couple parting ways right before a baby is born. However I don’t know her reasoning behind it, if there was abuse than I think the marriage should be dissolved. If there was some cheating going on and she feels enough is enough than yes end it, it’s not worth risking your happiness or health. I just hope it’s not because the two didn’t know how to get along, or pride. A lot of time in young marriages pride and selfishness hurts the couple, one person has to bow down and ride in the passenger seat while the other drives. Young marriages don’t understand that concept, everybody wants to run things and be equal and a marriage will not survive that way.

I will write a post about this later on, I know women can be strong headed at times and not saying this is her fault I don’t know what happened. But most of the time when were in a relationship were more concerned about proving a point then understanding the power that God blessed us with. It’s always a power struggle in our relationships, what we have to understand is a relationship will never be 50/50 no matter how much we want it to be, it will not. It will be a period of time where one person is doing more than the other. It will be a point where he’s controlling things and then a point where you are running and controlling things. It’s a shift and a balance that we’ve yet to understand how to embrace in young marriages. Anyhow I will talk more later about that, I hope Kelis is fine I don’t want her to be stressing out while she’s preggers.   And I hope whatever it is they will find a way to have a healthy relationship for the kid. And I ain’t mad at her for getting knocked up before she left can you say a check every month lol.

I remember when Snoop filed for divorce from his wife; he was living life in the fast lane like Irv Gotti. He didn’t cherish his family so he felt being single was better but he came to his senses and worked it out. And they worked it out and stayed together so maybe there going to go all the way or maybe they will seek counseling and stay together. Either way I hope they’re happy because you only have one life to live so you should enjoy it.