Comments on: MassMedia ThrowBack Post: Your Not On My Level

By: Nichelle

Nichelle — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 20:31:09 +0000

Jailhouse I just read your comment, I will not date a drug dealer because, one I am a mother who is raising a son. I have no place to be invovled with a man who does such things. Two, I am not a ride or die I will not do your jailtime and what not. In fact whatever you don’t want the police to know you better not tell me because I letting it all ride if I have to. I believe in struggle and men that make bad choices and I also believe you can not change a person, if that is the way he is living there is nothing you can do about it. That life is dangerous and can end up with me or my kids dead, that’s for them young girls I am a grown woman. I didn’t say a changed man, but a man who I clearly know is breaking laws I will not get entangled with.

By: dee

dee — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 20:10:09 +0000

I’m one of those who found out college was not for me..But went on to become successful at what I do..I work my way up within a company in a very short time…Both of my children are now in college and love it, So they see both sides.

By: Nichelle

Nichelle — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:21:29 +0000

I do agree with the being judgemental

By: jailhouse

jailhouse — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:38:20 +0000

i always say put just about any woman in da room with me and ill pull her..believe it my words to every chick i talk to love me now hate me later..they always end up hating me and guess what i don’t care cause i told u so….why don’t u like a drug dealer? god made everybody a different way it aint ment for everybody to work a 9-5 and it aint meant for everybody to attend school etc..just because he or she sell drugs don’t make them a bad person..some ppl just trying to feed their family they have no other choice..i made that choice years ago but after that god made a better way for me and i took it and ran with it..it’s not what you do it’s how u do it..don’t miss out on some good being judgemental

By: Mizz Dallas

Mizz Dallas — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:38:49 +0000

I agree with Anna, especially when its 42% successful black woman who are NOT married with no kids so Im for one will be dating outside the box

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Wed, 29 Jul 2009 16:01:29 +0000

[...] not on my level” and I told him not to take offense to that. I wrote about this in my post Your not on my level. It’s not that all women feel that they are better than a black men or men in general [...]

By: Nichelle

Nichelle — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:33:35 +0000

right I agree totally.

By: Yolanda

Yolanda — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 16:25:54 +0000

That is so true! I realized how self defeating I was by ruling out men w/o a degree. Blame it on my naivety. However, when I say someone is not on my level, I can make that blanket statement in regards to their spirituality, aspirations, etc.

By: Nichelle

Nichelle — Fri, 22 May 2009 12:25:41 +0000

I agree because everybody has a story and everyone has a chance to grow

By: Anna

Anna — Fri, 22 May 2009 05:56:41 +0000

This is like youre writing this article just for me! my daughter only wants a man on her level, which is a good thing I raised her to have standards and pride in herself, but shes not hearing me when I say sometimes you have to think out of the box,if a man is hardworking respectful, honest etc, you shouldnt overlook the brother because he makes less than you. College isnt for everyone, and I’d rather have a good man, versus a man with a degree and a good income who treats me like shit