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Aug202009
What Is A Man’s Place In A Relationship?
Written by Nichelle at 1:30 pm
Since this is the new age and Women basically run everything, my question is what is a man’s place in a relationship? In the beginning of time the man’s place was to be a protector, provider, the head, a strong person and a leader. But now all that has change to what? I’m confused on what’s a man’s role in a relationship now. We make more money than them, we are more educated and it’s less likely now for a woman to listen to her man. So what’s left for them to be? I ask this because it ran across my mind once I listened to BabyFace “Soon As I Get Home For Work”.
Back in the day, men where strong and women where soft. In those times women let men pay there bills, be there knight and court them like it should be. Now it’s I don’t need a man I got my own shyt! If everything is so equal now what roles are left for a man only? What should he be that his wife/girl is not trying to be. I mean me; I’m pretty old fashion and whenever I decided to date again, I’m the type of chick that will fall back and let the man take the lead. But only if I can trust him enough to lead me in the right direction. But if your not willing to then what should your man be to you that’s different then what your are to him?
Do you believe everything should be equal and that old fashion stuff is for the birds let me know???
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I do think cooking is important to keep a man, but from my personal experiences it has not been the case. I have never cooked for any of my BFs and its NEVER been an issue. My current doesn’t ask me to cook and never has, also I feel like I have such other wonderful traits that if cooking is all I got to get and keep a man, I am in BIG trouble. I think that everyone falls into their roles eventually, meaning if we get married and have children I know that I will cook and won’t mind doing so, just like he will fall in his role of being head of the household, etc. Ya know? So once again I AGREE with this post lol
Also i will say this…Cooking to me is a huge deal, once I do that, that means I am YOURS and you ain’t going no where lol! So I don’t do it all willy nilly.
I know–no stalkers–girl cause it’s rare to get a good meal..lol
sorry…
it’s important that you can cook well. if you’re not, SOMEBODY ELSE IS COOKING FOR HIM. :\
lol @ Reggie.
sorry ladies.
really zillz, that’s not going to make him wife you?
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I can see the comment section for this post. I love a man who can cook #thatisall lol
yeah I like a man that can cook, because I def dont know how to cook! hehehehehehhe I know how to eat! lol
Yes a man that can cook is great to have around lol
I agree with most, I know I dont’ want a women to cook for my man, unless it’s his mama or his sister or (female nieces). Hubby knows how to cook for himself if I don’t have time. We really don’t cook in the kitchen at the same time, only because two cooks in the kitchen (he & I) will never finish cooking. Foreplay, really does start in all rooms of the house besides the bedroom. LOL. I have to see how well he can use a vacuum and watch him vacuum the rug. I know he knows what a wet vac is because we have a garage. LOL. For you with simple minds , a rug is a carpet in the home and a wet vac is really a wet vac. LOL.
I love to cook , But I agree with you Nichelle when he is ready to open up and receive you.
that was back then when you could win us over with cooking but not now and not me…women will put some in your food and kill u watch out lol
Cosign 100% Nichelle. Reggie hasn’t married Kim yet. Good looks and an abilty to cook aren’t enough to keep a man interested- he does have to be ready to open his heart to you.
thanks ladies and jailhouse you are a mess