So I was watching Fabolous new video “When the money goes” I’m such a Fab fan and love all his music and the video was dope. My problem here is, why do men love golddigger’s so much?? They make all these song’s about how they will trick all this money on them. Then turn around and call women bitches and ho’s. I don’t get it, the song talks about giving a woman the world and when the going gets tuff she bails out. I couldn’t help but notice the girl was a LSH, very pretty however; she didn’t have her own grind. When the going got tuff she didn’t ride because she didn’t know how. Why do men choose these type of well kept women on there arm?
Nothing is guaranteed in life, you can be on today and off tomorrow, in my opinion you should want a shorty with common sense. A go getter, a woman who is strong when needed and soft when needed. When your back is pushed up against the wall, wouldn’t you men want a woman who will step up and get the house in order until you can take over once again? I don’t understand why men complain about bishes ain’t shyt but continue to wife up these type of women. Then when the going gets ruff and she bails-now you have a chip on your shoulder. Men need to really think before they leap. A woman who is a material girl does not make a good girlfriend or wife. Material things are always temporary and can be gone at anytime. So what do you think will happen when you cant spoil her any longer??
I mean yeah she looks good, got a fat azz and the cooch is the bomb but if that’s all you want in a woman/wife then be prepared for the ride. A real man understand that choosing a mate solely on that will get you burned. But again this world is so screwed up and people want what they want but if you have a foundation built off money, sex and looks when it’s gone will she still be there????
babydoll
Comment made on August 19, 2009 @ 3:42 pm
You are asking the question i have been asking for years. Maybe it also has to do with men loving bitches too. The contradictions are killer to me.
Nichelle Walker
Comment made on August 20, 2009 @ 10:05 am
Hey girl I know how you been?
babydoll
Comment made on August 20, 2009 @ 4:01 pm
I been good, trying to stay focused at work…so hard! lol…how is everything with you miss lady??
Nichelle Walker
Comment made on August 20, 2009 @ 4:11 pm
I’m good just staying busy myself lol
Anna
Comment made on October 7, 2009 @ 2:22 pm
Men love golddiggers because a golddigger wants him to spend money on her, and when they go out and others see what she is wearing/blinging it’s a reflexion of his wallet and his so called generosity towards her. It’s not about her but about him. I have never seen a homely golddigger with a messed up weave. Men are visual and you can spot a golddigger a mile away. Her nails are always manicured, hair done and makeup on, even if she is only going to the mailbox. Golddiggers are always digging even if they are in between men. Nichelle you are correct, a man will take care of his golddigger until the money runs out, she will never stick around for the struggle, that is why we have so many “mistress” women. They only want the fun time with the other womans husband and not the true reality of day to day living.
Z
Comment made on October 16, 2009 @ 7:52 pm
Hi Nichelle! First Time visiting your blog, first time commenting. IMO, men love gold diggers for the same reason they love bitches…he has to work for her affection and attention. Strangely enough (or not) men don’t seem to appreciate women who’s attention and affection is easy to obtain.
Nichelle Walker
Comment made on October 16, 2009 @ 8:05 pm
Hey Z thanks so much for stopping and I agree, and Anna perfectly put.
Anna
Comment made on October 16, 2009 @ 9:10 pm
Hi Z youre gonna love it here on this website, welcome!
mzthang
Comment made on November 19, 2009 @ 4:10 pm
Hay Nichelle i am a fan of ur books(DOING HIS TIME & MONEY OVER MEN)two of the hottest books I ever read! Girl i’ve been waiting for ur other book want to know when will it be dropping.
Nichelle
Comment made on November 19, 2009 @ 4:11 pm
soon I am makin sure it’s right and thanks so much