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    • A Real Woman Giving Real Advice

      Written by Nichelle in Reality Blogging, Relationships Dating Advice, Michelle Obama at 3:05 pm
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    Michelle who I admire and adore gave us some real dating advice not that Ronny Ho-quote advice. I’m glad Michelle gave some real advice of  ”Don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul.” So true you can build a life, build a family, you can build wealth but you CANNOT change a man. So please use your heart and not your eyes. You never now where your love can end up when you choose wisely, I always say it’s not the money that makes a man, but it’s the man who makes the money..

    Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you as a person? That’s the advice I would give to women: Don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul. Look at how the guy treats his mother and what he says about women. How he acts with children he doesn’t know. And, more important, how does he treat you? When you’re dating a man, you should always feel good. You should never feel less than. You should never doubt yourself. You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole. And if you’re in that relationship and you’re dating, then my advice is, don’t get married. Get out of it and find that person that brings you complete and utter joy with who you are at the moment.


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    1. nicole

      Comment made on November 5, 2009 @ 9:53 pm

      Michele obama has so much pose and grace she is utterly what a real woman should be it’s the way you carry yourself that is going to determine the kind of mate you have sometimes you have to step back and examine what is it you truly want from some one what can saome one offer you that you can’t offer yourself and that one thing you should say is companionship if you said anything other than that you need to really think what is truly important to you in a relationship

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    3. Faey

      Comment made on November 10, 2009 @ 9:27 am

      Michelle is also a model woman of mine. Her position, for me, is very challenging. She had to project the image of the ideal American woman, American mother and American wife. Most importantly, she should not portray the role–she should live it for things like this can not stay as an act for so long. But she pulled it off with grace.

      “You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole.”

      This is the strongest line, for me, in this post. Most women, in an effort to keep the men of their dreams longer, pretend to be who they are not. Which is wrong. In a relationship, you have to be the realest that you can be. No holds barred and no bars held.

      -Faey/a>

    4. Faey

      Comment made on November 10, 2009 @ 9:29 am

      Michelle is also a model woman of mine. Her position, for me, is very challenging. She had to project the image of the ideal American woman, American mother and American wife. Most importantly, she should not portray the role–she should live it for things like this can not stay as an act for so long. But she pulled it off with grace.

      “You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole.”

      This is the strongest line, for me, in this post. Most women, in an effort to keep the men of their dreams longer, pretend to be who they are not. Which is wrong. In a relationship, you have to be the realest that you can be. No holds barred and no bars held.

      -Faey

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