Intuition Or Insecurity?

I got this crazy feeling
I’m gone be single again
I know it, I can feel it
I know you gone mess up~~Keri Hilson

This is my favorite song off of In A Perfect World, the lyrics are so real I can feel them. I was listening to Intuition over the weekend and the song made me wonder is this really having an intuition or being insecure? I mean if you get into a new relationship should you be feeling this way? I do feel everyone should be given a fair chance but how do you beat this feeling of that person messing up like the last? Some men feel this way as well I think it’s only common for any gender to feel like this after being hurt.  Men have the same trust issues we have as women; it’s a lot of dirty chicks in the world so I can’t point the finger one way.

I know for me this would be exactly how I would feel because I have trust issue now with men and don’t believe in them. It’s one of the main reasons I am skipping out on the relationship thing. Going into something new feeling like this is more of an insecurity thing and it’s not healthy for the relationship. I believe intuition kicks in once you have been with a person for a while and you know their movements and actions. It’s when everything starts to change and you get that gut feeling that something is not right but you can’t place your finger on it.

Your intuition is usually right on the money, I can recall a time I knew something was up but I couldn’t find any evidence. I won’t lie if I need to be, I will turn into inspector gadget. Long story short I knew my ex had a separate phone but I couldn’t find it; well one day I stumble across it on the whelm of it. He asked me to get his car charger and he had two different ones plugged up I knew it was somewhere close. I tore up his car and found it under his floor mat, I didn’t say anything to him I got the number and went and did my investigation. In the matter of 24 hours I had the phone bill printed and in my hand ready to kick it off. I got all I needed to know including his sidepiece home phone number and husbands name with her address. Yeah I told it all~~~~

Like I said most of the time your intuition is right, but you can’t mix that up with insecurities. Being insecure can take a toll over your state of mind, and can be a burden on a new relationship. Getting with someone and telling yourself “there gonna mess up, I know it” is really wrong. In fact the words we speak out of our mouths are very powerful and can actually come true. Speaking negative thoughts can sometimes hinder our blessings and keep us into ruts in our lives. I think until you’re over feeling like this maybe skipping out on committed relationship would be the best thing.

If you don’t believe in your relationship why should anybody else believe right?

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