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Feb192010
Are We Whoring Out Our Daughters R Training Them Smartly?
Written by Nichelle at 3:04 pm
Well leave it to Tyra to pick out the worst women to rep us ladies, I will say that it was a couple of women with sense but the rest where airheads. I’m glad that this showed it’s more than black women who chase after money. After I watched it, I began to think; okay are these women really whoring out there daughters? I mean little white girls are raised to go after a man with a career, there taught that they need to marry a man that can provide a stable home. Now is it wrong to raise our little black girls the same? Now I think some of these mothers where down right gold digging bishes however it did make me wonder why do we raise black girls to accept anything and white girls or raised to be taken care of?
I don’t think money is the key, my granddad told me a man that is a good man will always make a way, and I rather have that over a rich man who treats me bad any day. In my book money comes and goes, so worshiping it makes no sense. What stuck out to me was the thought of how many little girls are lost and if it’s our fought as parents.
Are we whoring out our daughters these days? If we don’t tell them right from wrong they won’t know the way. If we as grown women don’t value ourselves how can we train our daughters to. When I watch Kris speak to Scott she said and I quote “I want my daughter to be taken care of with no struggles, Kim has Reggie, Khole has Lamar” At first I felt some kind of way about that, but at the end of the day, what would you want for your daughter? I want my daughter to end up with a man who respects her, cherish her and love her unconditionally. I do want her to pick a man with a career and stay away from the block boys and I don’t feel wrong for saying that because she deserves better. In my eyes living good is what you make it not the next person, so as long as he is good for her then I am happy the money is not important to me. We all our different women so at the end of the day I can’t knock Kris for raising her daughters up to be gold digger’s if that’s what she wants for them.
I want my daughter to be happy and money cannot and will not buy happiness; it’s just a temporary solution that fades away.
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The problem is simply men don’t know who to be men and women don’t know how to be women. If they don’t know how to be the pure basics of themselves then how can they be something else?
What I mean is we as people go through stages throughout our lives mentally. We go through the infant stage, to the child stage, to the adolescent stage, to the young adult stage, to adult and etc. There are alot of people who’s growth got stunned at a stage so when physically their growing their mental didn’t catch up. As a result they act accordingly. It takes a real adult to really grasp the true concept of marriage because they have grown past thinking and acting like a buffoon and therefore acknowledges why marriage is important and cherishes it. They will only appreciate and see the beauty in marriage when they have seen marriage work and prospered in their early stages of their mental.
Alot of people have gone through tragic events in their life that have stunned their mental growth. They can’t conceptualize adult issues and ordeals because they have not pass that level yet or never. It really takes a real man and woman to withstand all a marriage contains because it is intense and forthgoing. It takes an adult to be not only responsible but to be secure with themselves and whole (not fragmented) because they are merging with each other to make one mind. That is one hellava thing to do and can you imagine a childlike or adolescent like do such a task?
I hope this isn’t confusing what I said but in a nutshell you can’t be a man doing a boy’s job or vice versa.
OMG I SO COSIGN YOU NICHELLE!!!
#COSIGNNNNNNNNNNN
BEING A MAN IS BEING A ADULT, A ADULT HAS A JOB AND PROVIDES, BOTTOM LINE!
i agree with you nichelle.
people keep defining what a man is and what a woman is.
no matter the opinion, at the end of the day whether he’s a king, president, homeless, a bum or a criminal…he’s a man. and same for women.
Very fitting on you to post the The Brokewives of Atlanta pic at the top! lmao
Back on topic: Some people dont get married for honest and truth & love anymore they get married for convienance, sad to say, so when its NO longer convienant for the other party that person bails out on the relationship or marriage. Its a sad state that were living in, very few people stick bye their mate while they down and out, alot of people have come accustom to having material things become more important then having LOVE in their life!
I agree Mizz Dalla’s that’s so sad
My cousin recommended this blog and she was totally right keep up the fantastic work!
Mizzdallas, With our economy and ppl losing their jobs we can look at our circle of friends and know who will still be married. When you marry for money and the money becomes limited the materialistic spouse will bounce like the check they wrote to keep the cable on. LOL. A wife is to support her husband, be his biggest cheerleader, pat him on the back and give him a “that a boy” every now and then. When my husband’s job cut his hours 2 yrs ago, he didn’t look for me to pick up the slack, he got a second job. For some marriage is “what are you going to do for me, vs what are we going to build together”. Too many ppl walk away from a marriage to easily. If you take counseling before marriage, shouldn’t you take it before a divorce? Too may ppl give up too quickly. So what if you have lived in a 3500 sq ft home for the past 10 yrs. and you can’t imagine downsizing to a 1500 sq ft home. A marriage is about compromise and accepting that things do change that you can’t conrol.