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Feb252010
Love Without A Limit
Written by Nichelle at 3:10 pm
What happen to the good ole days when we love and there was no limit? The days when people loved beyond looks, beyond money, beyond material things?
Now that I am single I am having a hard time catching up with all this new stuff, I want a love without a limit. I want a man that will love me beyond my looks, big azz and sex game. I don’t think a love like that even exists any longer. Today people are so concern with what a person has, what a person looks like and what a person can do for them right now.
I believe we should all have standards and wants, but what about a real foundation? I need a man to be with me through thick and thin and not cheat! I don’t know, I just feel like the men now want a temporary goodtime and the women are looking to get saved. Nobody is looking for a partner, just for somebody who makes him or her feel good for the moment. Women go with the money and men go with the azz and good sex.
I just can’t get with this dating game; I know what I wanted to accomplish with my last relationship. I stayed down, loyal and never betrayed him because I had a goal. I’d been with him since I was fresh out of high school and I tried to ride with him like a soldier but hey it didn’t work out. I had to realize the difference between riding with him and ridding by myself. I woke up one day 12 years later and saw that I was all by myself so I might as well be by myself. So I had to ditch my dead weight because it wasn’t doing nothing but wearing me down.
I must admit getting back out here is like having a serious reality check; men aren’t the same as they where back in the nineties nether are the women. It’s a different world now, in my opinion everything has turned for the worst. I just want a love like James and Florida Evans had. Something real, something unbreakable something that has no limits I want a love that will last.
Do you think you can find a love without a limit these days? Can you love without a limit yourself?
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The problem is simply men don’t know who to be men and women don’t know how to be women. If they don’t know how to be the pure basics of themselves then how can they be something else?
What I mean is we as people go through stages throughout our lives mentally. We go through the infant stage, to the child stage, to the adolescent stage, to the young adult stage, to adult and etc. There are alot of people who’s growth got stunned at a stage so when physically their growing their mental didn’t catch up. As a result they act accordingly. It takes a real adult to really grasp the true concept of marriage because they have grown past thinking and acting like a buffoon and therefore acknowledges why marriage is important and cherishes it. They will only appreciate and see the beauty in marriage when they have seen marriage work and prospered in their early stages of their mental.
Alot of people have gone through tragic events in their life that have stunned their mental growth. They can’t conceptualize adult issues and ordeals because they have not pass that level yet or never. It really takes a real man and woman to withstand all a marriage contains because it is intense and forthgoing. It takes an adult to be not only responsible but to be secure with themselves and whole (not fragmented) because they are merging with each other to make one mind. That is one hellava thing to do and can you imagine a childlike or adolescent like do such a task?
I hope this isn’t confusing what I said but in a nutshell you can’t be a man doing a boy’s job or vice versa.
OMG I SO COSIGN YOU NICHELLE!!!
#COSIGNNNNNNNNNNN
BEING A MAN IS BEING A ADULT, A ADULT HAS A JOB AND PROVIDES, BOTTOM LINE!
i agree with you nichelle.
people keep defining what a man is and what a woman is.
no matter the opinion, at the end of the day whether he’s a king, president, homeless, a bum or a criminal…he’s a man. and same for women.
Very fitting on you to post the The Brokewives of Atlanta pic at the top! lmao
Back on topic: Some people dont get married for honest and truth & love anymore they get married for convienance, sad to say, so when its NO longer convienant for the other party that person bails out on the relationship or marriage. Its a sad state that were living in, very few people stick bye their mate while they down and out, alot of people have come accustom to having material things become more important then having LOVE in their life!
I agree Mizz Dalla’s that’s so sad
My cousin recommended this blog and she was totally right keep up the fantastic work!
Mizzdallas, With our economy and ppl losing their jobs we can look at our circle of friends and know who will still be married. When you marry for money and the money becomes limited the materialistic spouse will bounce like the check they wrote to keep the cable on. LOL. A wife is to support her husband, be his biggest cheerleader, pat him on the back and give him a “that a boy” every now and then. When my husband’s job cut his hours 2 yrs ago, he didn’t look for me to pick up the slack, he got a second job. For some marriage is “what are you going to do for me, vs what are we going to build together”. Too many ppl walk away from a marriage to easily. If you take counseling before marriage, shouldn’t you take it before a divorce? Too may ppl give up too quickly. So what if you have lived in a 3500 sq ft home for the past 10 yrs. and you can’t imagine downsizing to a 1500 sq ft home. A marriage is about compromise and accepting that things do change that you can’t conrol.
I am not really wonderful with English but I find this really easy to interpret.