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Keys: A Dose Of Reality, DreamsMar252010
Ladies How Long Should You Support Your Man’s Dream?
Written by Nichelle at 1:20 pm
I am on the fence with this one, honestly I swear where does Tyra get these people from? Anyhow my ex always told me I would never be nothing without him, in fact he would say to me. “I’m not worried about you because your OTG” that meant Out The Game! He would say you have two kids and your living in a fantasy world, wake up it will never happen. He would always break me down and try to make me feel worthless. I remember back in 2003 when I had a opportunity to write a script for an production company ran by a man. I was so excited, but once my ex met him he said Hell No. He was like he just wants to sleep with you. He laughed at me and said I would never make it, that I needed to give up and focus on working a job. I still get upset when I think about how I let that opportunity slip by me. I guess it wasn’t my time, long story short flash forward to 2010 and I want people to know I have been working on building me since 2001; this isn’t a overnight thing for me. But I am here, I am strong and I am aware and my kids father is sitting on the sidelines watching me become everything that he thought I wouldn’t be. I am still standing….
Now back to the topic, I think it only to a certain point. I feel as long as he has a plan and he is working on building then yes. But sitting around with his woulda, shoulda, coulda I’ll pass on that.
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The problem is simply men don’t know who to be men and women don’t know how to be women. If they don’t know how to be the pure basics of themselves then how can they be something else?
What I mean is we as people go through stages throughout our lives mentally. We go through the infant stage, to the child stage, to the adolescent stage, to the young adult stage, to adult and etc. There are alot of people who’s growth got stunned at a stage so when physically their growing their mental didn’t catch up. As a result they act accordingly. It takes a real adult to really grasp the true concept of marriage because they have grown past thinking and acting like a buffoon and therefore acknowledges why marriage is important and cherishes it. They will only appreciate and see the beauty in marriage when they have seen marriage work and prospered in their early stages of their mental.
Alot of people have gone through tragic events in their life that have stunned their mental growth. They can’t conceptualize adult issues and ordeals because they have not pass that level yet or never. It really takes a real man and woman to withstand all a marriage contains because it is intense and forthgoing. It takes an adult to be not only responsible but to be secure with themselves and whole (not fragmented) because they are merging with each other to make one mind. That is one hellava thing to do and can you imagine a childlike or adolescent like do such a task?
I hope this isn’t confusing what I said but in a nutshell you can’t be a man doing a boy’s job or vice versa.
OMG I SO COSIGN YOU NICHELLE!!!
#COSIGNNNNNNNNNNN
BEING A MAN IS BEING A ADULT, A ADULT HAS A JOB AND PROVIDES, BOTTOM LINE!
i agree with you nichelle.
people keep defining what a man is and what a woman is.
no matter the opinion, at the end of the day whether he’s a king, president, homeless, a bum or a criminal…he’s a man. and same for women.
Very fitting on you to post the The Brokewives of Atlanta pic at the top! lmao
Back on topic: Some people dont get married for honest and truth & love anymore they get married for convienance, sad to say, so when its NO longer convienant for the other party that person bails out on the relationship or marriage. Its a sad state that were living in, very few people stick bye their mate while they down and out, alot of people have come accustom to having material things become more important then having LOVE in their life!
I agree Mizz Dalla’s that’s so sad
My cousin recommended this blog and she was totally right keep up the fantastic work!
Mizzdallas, With our economy and ppl losing their jobs we can look at our circle of friends and know who will still be married. When you marry for money and the money becomes limited the materialistic spouse will bounce like the check they wrote to keep the cable on. LOL. A wife is to support her husband, be his biggest cheerleader, pat him on the back and give him a “that a boy” every now and then. When my husband’s job cut his hours 2 yrs ago, he didn’t look for me to pick up the slack, he got a second job. For some marriage is “what are you going to do for me, vs what are we going to build together”. Too many ppl walk away from a marriage to easily. If you take counseling before marriage, shouldn’t you take it before a divorce? Too may ppl give up too quickly. So what if you have lived in a 3500 sq ft home for the past 10 yrs. and you can’t imagine downsizing to a 1500 sq ft home. A marriage is about compromise and accepting that things do change that you can’t conrol.
I am not really wonderful with English but I find this really easy to interpret.