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Reality Fact: Hiding Your Past ~ Should You Lie About Your Sex Number?
Written by Nichelle at 2:03 pm
This debate has be going on from the beginning of time, should you tell or shouldn’t you tell. Some say it’s not his business how many men I slept with; however is it really? I mean why lie? Why be ashamed about it now that your in a relationship? You were doing you and being grown, but now you want to put on the good girl act for him. I was over at one of my favorite sites Brown Sista and they had this posted today, 11 Things Your Man Does Not Need To Know
1. Sexual Partners
He does not need to know how many guys you slept with. Why? Because no matter the number, it will be too much. There is and always will be a double standard for women when it comes to sex. Men are allowed to swing their penis freely without judgment. Penis is never hard to find. While women, should keep a chastity belt wrapped around their vagina until marriage. If they do not then they are judged harshly and viewed as slut happy. While he is viewed as king of the vagina’s.
I disagree and think it’s wrong to trick a man into believing he has a wholesome girl and then he finds out she smashed all the homies. I can agree with the double standard, however I don’t want a man who had lots of women either. I can’t blame a man for not wanting a women who share her p*zzy with anybody that cracks a cheese smile at her. Lying can get you into deep trouble, your past has the strangest way of catching up with you, you can’t hide your past. Your past will always be a part of your life not matter what you do, so I suggest if your ashamed of it don’t do it.
Ladies do you feel you should hide your sex number?
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men lie, women lie…numbers don’t. (c) Jay-Z
i don’t think you should hide it….unless it’s so many that you are ashamed and now you’re a changed person from the hoe bag you once were. but you’re right, it could come back to haunt you. the next question after “how many” should be “have you been tested?”
I agree 100%
@online
your right on point!
If you can count on all fingers and have to use some toes(not all) is it ok? LOL. It really is not about the number, but the “who”. Drug dealer, pimp, etc. I think that everyone should take the time to get tested for everything before they try to include a new person in their life. FYI, I have never had sex with a drug dealer, pimp, or a wanna be? LOL. Get tested ppl. I have. Life Is Like a Box Of Chocolates, You Never know What Ya Gonna Get. I don’t want a gift that keeps on giving. LOL.
Lies stick around. And the only people who are comfortable living with a carpet of old lies underfoot aren’t people you want to be with. Two things: (1) be honest, and (2) remember you can always say, “I don’t answer that question.” Be firm and smile.
And always, always, always insist your new guy get tested first.
I agree Kari
Well PHUCK ALL THIS Guy This and Guy That BULL-SHYT…
MEN and WOMEN should demand getting tested for STD(s) for EVERYONE’S SAFETY !!!
The NUMBER of Sexual-Encounters and Sex-Partners are SO INSIGNIFICANT to ME because HOW can YOU truly know the EXACT NUMBER ** Shrugs ** HOW many STD(s) have this person contracted & How many individual’s have they Infected & How many different types of STD(s) have this person had are FAR MORE Important to me than HOW MANY TIMES this person has had SEX or How many Sex-Partners… But HEY, That’s Just How I AM !!!!!
And MORE Importantly IF an individual did IN FACT contract a STD… then HOW did it happen ?!? You can use protection and in a freakish situation can STILL catch something (Being So Real..) I HAVE heard some really WEIRD WAYS how someone has contracted an STD and they were using protection during Sexual-Intercourse ** Shrugs Again **