Is getting yours first during sex your main focus? I feel men sometimes only focus on themselves when there having sex most of the time. I was having a talk about this with a friend of mine and he said “she better get hers the best way she can” and I thought do all men think like this? I know my ex said that to me all the time, however I felt sometimes he should have tried to make me reach my peak. Then I picked up the Essence Magazine today and the article says it is up to the women to reach her climax, she has to figure out her spots and use them while engaging in sex so she can insure she reaches her peak every time. This leaves me scratching my head; what’s the point in having sex with someone outside of yourself then? I do feel that you have to reach your peak before he does because that might be all he has in him then your left looking like the picture above.
It isn’t all that fun, but I guess in a way you are in control of your body. What are your thought is it important to get yours first?
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Nope, it’s harder for us….They need to wait.
I agree
jacque reid was just talking about not being able to go there with ANYONE, EVER. how dreadful!
Deirdre B Pride
Comment made on March 4, 2010 @ 1:50 pm
Nope, it’s harder for us….They need to wait.
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It is harder for women. Especially if you have things(chores) to do and little kids. Foreplay starts way before you get in the bedroom. Cooking together or washing dishes together is “foreplay”. The more things my husband helps around the house, the less things I have to worry about while being intimate. We as women have a “wondering mind”. I need to do laundry, what am I going to make for dinner?, I need to pick up the clothes from the cleaners, etc… This goes back to “What Is A Good Man & Can You Tame A Man. A good man is willing to be tamed, if it leads to quality love making. He is more willing to not be selfish in making sure his mate/wife is satisified in the bedroom. There is way more to being intimate than inserting ones body part into another body part. There is nothing wrong with exploring each others body, or making love in the middle of the day. LOL. No wonder there are so many “mean girls”(women), making love is a stess reliever and a connection with your mate/spouse. I would rather have quality love making vs quanity.
@online fan, isn’t Jaque also wanting to have a baby? Things happen when we learn to “RELAX”.
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