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Mar222010
Sucker For Love! Why Men Hold In Their Feelings
Written by Nichelle at 1:01 pm
Well, I read an interview with Luda and he skipped out on claiming his new girlfriend; some people said he was bogus others felt he just wants his business private. I don’t know the main reason, but what I do know is; when some men like Lance Gross show their love and affection for their girl (Eva) they get pinned as puzzy whipped or a sucker. I believe it’s the main reason men hold back on their feelings and act hard all the time because they don’t want to be viewed as soft. They put up fronts for there male friends as if they don’t care about their girl like that. I also believe the world has made it hard for men to be as open about there feelings as well. All the rappers and there songs about cutty buddies and on to the next one, it seems as if it’s wrong for a man to be madly in love.
Why hide someone that you’re in love with happily?
When you have rappers such as TI calling his fiancée, Tameka, a “situation” on national TV as if he didn’t kiss her and say I love you before hand. All for image are not to be viewed as soft? I mean love is love right? It should be celebrated not pushed to the back burner when you’re around certain people. I see this all the time; men hold n back there feelings for what? I mean if you digging her why not let go and let it be known that she is your girl? This is a part of making your woman feel like a woman your woman! We can sit back and make all kind of excuses for men, but the truth is they are worried about what people will say about them not wanting to run the streets. There’s nothing wrong with loving one woman and letting it be known that you’re in love, we do it all the time as women.
I know some will say there not men, just males however it’s more males then men in there world. There’s nothing wrong with making your lady feel special and I am all for keeping your business yours. However it is nothing wrong with acknowledging the person you are madly in love with and keeping it at that. Men hold back for all kinds of reason, probably the same as women, being hurt, scared of commitment, not ready or the main (imo) reason they don’t want to be viewed as a sucker for love.
One thing for sure women are not scare to claim there spouse most times they claiming something that’s not even there’s. So tell me why do you think men hold back their feelings?
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The problem is simply men don’t know who to be men and women don’t know how to be women. If they don’t know how to be the pure basics of themselves then how can they be something else?
What I mean is we as people go through stages throughout our lives mentally. We go through the infant stage, to the child stage, to the adolescent stage, to the young adult stage, to adult and etc. There are alot of people who’s growth got stunned at a stage so when physically their growing their mental didn’t catch up. As a result they act accordingly. It takes a real adult to really grasp the true concept of marriage because they have grown past thinking and acting like a buffoon and therefore acknowledges why marriage is important and cherishes it. They will only appreciate and see the beauty in marriage when they have seen marriage work and prospered in their early stages of their mental.
Alot of people have gone through tragic events in their life that have stunned their mental growth. They can’t conceptualize adult issues and ordeals because they have not pass that level yet or never. It really takes a real man and woman to withstand all a marriage contains because it is intense and forthgoing. It takes an adult to be not only responsible but to be secure with themselves and whole (not fragmented) because they are merging with each other to make one mind. That is one hellava thing to do and can you imagine a childlike or adolescent like do such a task?
I hope this isn’t confusing what I said but in a nutshell you can’t be a man doing a boy’s job or vice versa.
OMG I SO COSIGN YOU NICHELLE!!!
#COSIGNNNNNNNNNNN
BEING A MAN IS BEING A ADULT, A ADULT HAS A JOB AND PROVIDES, BOTTOM LINE!
i agree with you nichelle.
people keep defining what a man is and what a woman is.
no matter the opinion, at the end of the day whether he’s a king, president, homeless, a bum or a criminal…he’s a man. and same for women.
Very fitting on you to post the The Brokewives of Atlanta pic at the top! lmao
Back on topic: Some people dont get married for honest and truth & love anymore they get married for convienance, sad to say, so when its NO longer convienant for the other party that person bails out on the relationship or marriage. Its a sad state that were living in, very few people stick bye their mate while they down and out, alot of people have come accustom to having material things become more important then having LOVE in their life!
I agree Mizz Dalla’s that’s so sad
My cousin recommended this blog and she was totally right keep up the fantastic work!
Mizzdallas, With our economy and ppl losing their jobs we can look at our circle of friends and know who will still be married. When you marry for money and the money becomes limited the materialistic spouse will bounce like the check they wrote to keep the cable on. LOL. A wife is to support her husband, be his biggest cheerleader, pat him on the back and give him a “that a boy” every now and then. When my husband’s job cut his hours 2 yrs ago, he didn’t look for me to pick up the slack, he got a second job. For some marriage is “what are you going to do for me, vs what are we going to build together”. Too many ppl walk away from a marriage to easily. If you take counseling before marriage, shouldn’t you take it before a divorce? Too may ppl give up too quickly. So what if you have lived in a 3500 sq ft home for the past 10 yrs. and you can’t imagine downsizing to a 1500 sq ft home. A marriage is about compromise and accepting that things do change that you can’t conrol.