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Mar302010
When Sorry Is Not Enough ~ It’s Not Worth It
Written by Nichelle at 4:17 pm
I thought you loved me deeper than that he had enough nerve to fix his lips and say to me. 12 years in; two kids, all these bills plus the same ole shyt different just a day still going on. I was done! I was shocked he could say that to me. I mean how could he, didn’t he realize that I had forgiven him over and over and over again. I mean how many times can you say sorry for the same thing? How deep is your love for me was my responds to him? I mean it’s clear to see that he didn’t care how he treated me and sorry isn’t enough.
I stood in the mirror last April my face was bruised up so bad, I mean worse than Rihanna. I couldn’t even cry about it because it wasn’t the first time but it sure was going to be the last. I was through and not putting up with it any longer, I didn’t care how many times he cried or said sorry. It wasn’t enough! It couldn’t change the fact that I was done! It wasn’t going to fix what he did. Sorry doesn’t fix everything; sorry can’t erase your wrongs. Sorry can only go so far, sorry can’t change the past nor heal it. Sometimes sorry just isn’t enough. When we walk in life you have to know that you cant get by just by saying sorry. You have to make sure that every step you take in this life you count. One wrong move could ruin everything that you ever wanted or built.
It’s not worth it, to say sorry when you can just do right in the first place. Yes nobodies perfect and we all make mistakes. But when you repeatedly do the same things over and over again it’s not a mistake. Sorry can’t keep fixing the same thing, you can’t keep cheating on your spouse and saying sorry like that will make them forgive you. Sorry is just a word and it is very meaningless without an action of change behind it.
Just because you say sorry about something doesn’t mean that person has to deal with it. Why keep on doing things to break apart your family then when you get caught you want to cry a river. Now your sorry, but when you were doing wrong you could care less. Action speaks louder than words in life and you rarely can take a person word as gold. Folks always say one thing and do another; it’s just the way things are.
I can’t understand why folks just can’t do right, its not worth seeing the person you love crying and hurt. I mean really after your wrong is brought to light now you feel like you want to change. Why not do right the first time, you don’t know if sorry will be enough to keep what you have; that’s why you have to walk in the same respect as how you want your mate to treat you.
Yeah nobodies perfect like I said however, when things get beyond the level of respect you know you are wrong. You know you are wrong when you are lying, cheating and abusing someone. If you don’t want to be crying or to loose your home, your family then do right while you have a chance. Because nothing is promise to you and you are no better than your spouse so act like it!
It’s truly not worth it, cheating comes with hurt. Ask yourself is it worth it before you loose out because sometimes sorry is not enough. If it’s not worth it then don’t do it, because once it’s done you can’t take it back.
And trust me it ain’t worth loosing everything that you love over something that means nothing.
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The problem is simply men don’t know who to be men and women don’t know how to be women. If they don’t know how to be the pure basics of themselves then how can they be something else?
What I mean is we as people go through stages throughout our lives mentally. We go through the infant stage, to the child stage, to the adolescent stage, to the young adult stage, to adult and etc. There are alot of people who’s growth got stunned at a stage so when physically their growing their mental didn’t catch up. As a result they act accordingly. It takes a real adult to really grasp the true concept of marriage because they have grown past thinking and acting like a buffoon and therefore acknowledges why marriage is important and cherishes it. They will only appreciate and see the beauty in marriage when they have seen marriage work and prospered in their early stages of their mental.
Alot of people have gone through tragic events in their life that have stunned their mental growth. They can’t conceptualize adult issues and ordeals because they have not pass that level yet or never. It really takes a real man and woman to withstand all a marriage contains because it is intense and forthgoing. It takes an adult to be not only responsible but to be secure with themselves and whole (not fragmented) because they are merging with each other to make one mind. That is one hellava thing to do and can you imagine a childlike or adolescent like do such a task?
I hope this isn’t confusing what I said but in a nutshell you can’t be a man doing a boy’s job or vice versa.
OMG I SO COSIGN YOU NICHELLE!!!
#COSIGNNNNNNNNNNN
BEING A MAN IS BEING A ADULT, A ADULT HAS A JOB AND PROVIDES, BOTTOM LINE!
i agree with you nichelle.
people keep defining what a man is and what a woman is.
no matter the opinion, at the end of the day whether he’s a king, president, homeless, a bum or a criminal…he’s a man. and same for women.
Very fitting on you to post the The Brokewives of Atlanta pic at the top! lmao
Back on topic: Some people dont get married for honest and truth & love anymore they get married for convienance, sad to say, so when its NO longer convienant for the other party that person bails out on the relationship or marriage. Its a sad state that were living in, very few people stick bye their mate while they down and out, alot of people have come accustom to having material things become more important then having LOVE in their life!
I agree Mizz Dalla’s that’s so sad
My cousin recommended this blog and she was totally right keep up the fantastic work!
Mizzdallas, With our economy and ppl losing their jobs we can look at our circle of friends and know who will still be married. When you marry for money and the money becomes limited the materialistic spouse will bounce like the check they wrote to keep the cable on. LOL. A wife is to support her husband, be his biggest cheerleader, pat him on the back and give him a “that a boy” every now and then. When my husband’s job cut his hours 2 yrs ago, he didn’t look for me to pick up the slack, he got a second job. For some marriage is “what are you going to do for me, vs what are we going to build together”. Too many ppl walk away from a marriage to easily. If you take counseling before marriage, shouldn’t you take it before a divorce? Too may ppl give up too quickly. So what if you have lived in a 3500 sq ft home for the past 10 yrs. and you can’t imagine downsizing to a 1500 sq ft home. A marriage is about compromise and accepting that things do change that you can’t conrol.
I am not really wonderful with English but I find this really easy to interpret.