Who’s To Blame For Jump Off’s Getting Out Of Line?

I was just thinking to myself “here we go again” another women who willing slurp down a married mans dyck wants to take it out of her mouth now and start spilling the beans. Now let me make this clear this post has nothing to do with the two women, but it has everything to do with women signing up for trouble and not dealing with it when it comes. So you met a married men, you can care less because it’s his wife problem you don’t owe her shyt. You don’t have to show her respect because she’s not part of your inner circle. You hook up with dude despite him telling you the truth, he got a situation but he is not happy. You believe him when you say he’s not happy because your not truly happy yourself, anytime you are willing to share there’s some kind of missing void in your life you are trying to fill.  Now things are going good, the sex is on point, the conversation is flowing and your feelings are growing deep. But it’s just one thing holding you back from your happy times with your man his WIFE… You’ve already gone over it in your mind that he is better for you. One day he’s going to leave however you’re not stupid right? So you get all of wifey info just in case you need to spill the beans one day. You convince yourself if he plays you, you will make him pay in the worst way. You still hold him down but retaining all the information he gives you for later use if needed. Nobody’s going to play you for a fool you tell yourself to make yourself feel better about telling his wife about his unfaithful ways. Then when everything’s looking good you get that phone call. It’s wifey wanting to know the deal, at first you hold back because you don’t want to make him mad. It’s better if you have his back then he can see you were down for him right.

That’s until the true him comes out and he cusses you out and tells you not to call him anymore. That’s until you see he is not leaving his wife he was just lying. That’s until you feel you wasted your time on him, now your mad and want to make him pay. So you call up wifey and spill the beans about the money, trips and unprotected sex. You’re on a mission to hurt him, by hurting her. Truth is I don’t feel you need to say anything! You knew what it was when you signed up for it. Don’t get mad after he plays you and stays home, he had been playing you from the beginning and you let him so be mad at yourself at that point. Why try to spill the details about what was said and how endowed he is. It’s pretty pointless because no matter what folks say you are just as wrong as him so own your wrong and keep it moving. Yeah you don’t owe the wife nothing but you can’t think anything good can come out of something that started off wrong. So there’s no need to get out of line because all it does is help you make the same mistake again…

Fellas I blame most of this on you, why do you get a side woman and talk about your woman so badly. You disrespect her day in and day out to this woman so why wouldn’t she feel she could do it as well. You tell her how you don’t love her and the sex is bad, blah, blah, blah. Listen you don’t have to sell a ticket to a bish who is willing getting on the bus ya feel me.  If a chick is down for sharing then enjoy her until she gets off at her stop and pick up the next trick… Keep all your personal business your business. I’m against cheating but it is what it is, stop selling these women broken dreams it’s not working. Cheaters never win keep you dyck in your pants or don’t get married if you’re not ready. This stuff is getting way out of line when will you men wake up and see these chicks are not having it anymore?

When Sandra Bullock thanked her bad-boy husband, Jesse James, as she accepted her best actress Oscar for The Blind Side, she may not have known that while she was away shooting the film, Jesse was carrying on a steamy affair with a tattoo model. While Jesse has had an 11-month affair, including five weeks of sex, with Michelle “Bombshell” McGee, she believed he and Sandra were no longer together. “I would never have hooked up with him if I thought he was a married man,” Michelle tells In Touch in an exclusive interview. “He gave me the impression they were separated.” For weeks, while Sandra was in Atlanta shooting The Blind Side, Michelle had sex at least once a week with the Monster Garage star. Far from a one-night stand, his relationship with Michelle was intimate and highly charged. Michelle even says she called Jesse, who didn’t wear underwear or condoms, by a special pet name, Vanilla Gorilla, because he was so “well-endowed.”

While Jesse was in Atlanta with Sandra when she started to film The Blind Side, Michelle sent West Coast Choppers a friend request because she hoped to snag a modeling gig there. She was surprised that it was actually Jesse who wrote back to her and told her to e-mail him at his personal e-mail. From the start, Jesse wanted to meet Michelle, and it was never about business: “He started saying, ‘Do you want to hang out?’” So a week after he got in touch, Michelle drove two hours from her San Diego home to West Coast Choppers in LA. “I got there around 9 at night,” remembers Michelle, who was starstruck at first. “I was like, ‘Holy s**t. It’s really Jesse James.’” After taking Michelle on a tour of his garage, Jesse brought her into his office and locked the door. “We ended up on the couch,” she says. “He wanted to watch movies, but I asked him, ‘What’s going on with you and Sandra?’” Jesse was evasive. “He said, ‘She doesn’t live here. She has a house in Austin. She is filming, and I can’t talk about it.’” Assuming he and Sandra were separated, Michelle continued talking to Jesse, she says, and then, “We had intimate relations.” Michelle says she and Jesse had sex “two or three times,” that night — and began what she believed was a serious relationship, texting each other several times a day, and meeting up for sex at least twice a week for the next five weeks.

people.com:

“There is only one person to blame for this whole situation, and that is me. It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way.

“This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. I am truly very sorry for the grief I have caused them. I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me.”