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Keys: RelationshipsJul132010
Do Women Have Trouble Rebounding Vs Men?
Written by Nichelle at 9:59 am
Poor Jessica Simpson, what is this boyfriend number six or seven for her? I mean her ex husband Nick Lachey has been with his girlfriend Vanessa Minnillo since the divorce was final. Why is it harder for women to rebound in relationships? I see this happen all the time women going from one relationship to the next while the ex is either married or in a steady relationship. Is it easier for men to find love Vs women? My ex tells me all the time I will not find a man who wants me, I just ignore his jealous rants. However it does seem that women do have a harder time finding and keeping a relationship Vs men I wonder why is that?
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Well I hope the men respond to this post *popcorn*
Some ppl are or do want to be private *shrug*
Ok here goes. LOL… Seriously Its a growth thing, lets go back in time, when young men were younger when it came to girls we always said girls had “Coodies” LOL and then if we liked a girl we always tormented them i.e pulling their hair calling them ugly etc. So when we became teenagers and we had girlfriends we pretended we didnt care in front of our boys becuz peer pressure is a mofo during that time and guys didnt want to get ridiculed in front of the homies, However when you get older and you realize that there is no shame in showing how much you love and care for your girl, your women, your wife and that the only opinion that matter’s is yours about your feeling and how you choose to showcase them then that is all that matter’s. However you have some guys who still think it’s the in thing to be an asshole to thier girls. Also women have roles in this as well because if a guy shows his sensitive side sometimes they disown the brotha because they feel as though he may be to soft and they want that Thug, because of the perception of the thug being a manly man whose is hardcore all the time and he is suppose to repress his feelings, or they say he is too much of nice guy for them, they think they can run all over him etc. Which leads back to the beginning its all about growth and not caring about others opinion.
I like that one artist man
Private I can understand but claiming someone makes your business public?
far as men i dont see no problem with grown men claimin gthey girl and nobody i know with a girl has a problem doing it. as an entertainer however when you have a certain demographic of fans that you have to eat off of. lance is an actor so he can do as he pleases far as his girl. musicians however are held to a different standard women want them to be single or if they are involved its cool long as they not broadcast together everywhere. and its makes a difference just ask usher
I think it’s just as simple as they really don’t love her as much as we like for them to. If a guy REALLY loves you I mean digging you to the point of all he could think about is you and can’t imagine himself without you then he wouldn’t care about broadcasting it to the world but if he loves you but is hesitant about telling anybody that meaning he’s not sure about you or just not deeply in love with you like you think he is. Granted it’s all based upon maturity but when a man finds a woman that got him in a daze he wouldn’t care what his boys say he will go to the end of the world with her because no one else matters.
I think it differs for celeb’s because they have that female fan base they try to keep. Neither man is married (Luda or TI) so they are still considered sex symbols.
@Nichelle we see Luda and his boo out and about I cant ever recall seeing Luda out w/a woman before outside his baby mama and that was after they had broken up (I could be wrong about that) He decided he cared enough to go “public” so maybe later on down the road if she is still around he will speak on it.
I think it could be a maturity factor as well as the industry one is in maybe *shrug* I think as long as she doesnt have a problem with it thats all that matters #attheendoftheday
I wasn’t talking about Luda just men in gen and when dis having a girl effect u being a sex symbol in fact the chicks will want him more cuz they would feel he is a good man #justsaying and yeah if she cool but let’s be real she ain’t really cool with it.
Also I see men play these games often I feel sometimes they be pimiping but what do I know
I DISAGREE NICHELLE! I THINK YOU SOULD EVALUATE WHAT LUDAS AND TIS RELATIONSHIPS ARE. WE ASSUME THAT THESE PEOPLE FEEL SOME KIND OF WAY ABOUT THESE GIRLS WHEN THE REALITY IS THEY PROBABLY DONT.
I HEAR WAYY TOO MUCH ON TINY AND I HAVE POSTED ON IT BEFORE BUT I WILL MOVE TO LUDA. WHO IS THIS CHICK? MAYBE HE IS JUST OUT AND ABOUT SLEEPING AROUND HAVING FUN I GUESS…. I THINK WOMEN NEED TO STOP PUTTING THEIR PUSSY OUT ON THE STREET AND TRYING TO GET LOVE AND AFFECTION, WHEN YOU SHOW A MAN WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN YOU ARE DONT GET MAD WHEN THE MAN DOESNT LIKE IT AND REFER to you as somehting you don tfeel you are that should be a RED FLAG
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Co-Sign that @artistman999 … And the Males that continue that behavior ARE somewhat Stoopid & Extremely Immature to begin with THUS becoming a Learned-Behavior and part of HIS innate-Being — LOL
Women are Naturally Emotional AND Men are Naturally Sensitive …
But MALES (Men) are MUCH-Better at Controlling-n-Masking their Sensitivity than FEMALES (Women) are at doing the same with THEIR Emotional Behavior-n-Actions (ala Tom-Boys — LOL)
And to be Completely-Honest with you …
MEN are DEEPLY-AFRAID of being hurt IN REGARDS to being Rejected, Ignored and/or Being Mis-Used when THEIR True Feelings are Being INVOLVED or EXPOSED (Real…)
Hell Oprah never claimed Steadman. NEVER! and he was rich.
women want the toughest roughest richest most muscular good looking romantic sensitive funniest man with street smarts and 3 degrees…ever. Even Jesus didn’t have all of that. dang.
women use our feelings against us so i just don’t say how i feel anymore so i just tell her go with the flow.
jailhouse
Comment made on March 27, 2010 @ 4:31 pm
women use our feelings against us so i just don’t say how i feel anymore so i just tell her go with the flow.
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You hit the nail on the head. Women do that. I think it’s just are DNA. I learned long ago how to argue in a fair manner. Ladies need to quit hitting below the belt. Men are more sensitive than we give them credit for. Even a “thug” has feelings. LOL.
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Comment made on March 22, 2010 @ 2:04 pm
I think it’s just as simple as they really don’t love her as much as we like for them to. If a guy REALLY loves you I mean digging you to the point of all he could think about is you and can’t imagine himself without you then he wouldn’t care about broadcasting it to the world but if he loves you but is hesitant about telling anybody that meaning he’s not sure about you or just not deeply in love with you like you think he is. Granted it’s all based upon maturity but when a man finds a woman that got him in a daze he wouldn’t care what his boys say he will go to the end of the world with her because no one else matters.”
so agree with this comment.
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it’s just not fair cuz I’m willing to do it yet they are not.
Aw, this was a really nice post. In thought I wish to put in writing like this moreover – taking time and precise effort to make a very good article… but what can I say… I procrastinate alot and on no account seem to get one thing done.