Missing Out On The One!

I think Chilli missed out on her soulmate when she left Usher and I believe she knows it as well. Watching her talk about him on VH1 I saw that what they had sometimes you only get to find that kind of love once in a lifetime. A love that connects you together where it always feels right even in the bad times you still feel connected. It’s hard to find someone you have things in common with, chemistry, great sex, good conversation, great times and a connection that burns so deep you can feel it even when they are away. I mean I don’t understand how someone can let something so great go, but then again we live with so much baggage and fear in our lives even when you have someone who is that right standing in front of you, you’ll find something wrong because you afraid to let go.  I can’t see how you can shake that “I missed out” feeling when you skipped over the person you know you could have had a happy life with? Of course some say everything happens for a reason but I truly believe some things are destine and we hinder ourselves by not letting go of past things or being to stubborn to give in. Sometimes the only reason that you miss out on something great is because you where to scared to move your feet and it will be something that you will have to live with forever. And it’s much easier say “maybe it wasn’t meant” but the truth is, it was and you missed out and you might not have another chance at finding that one again. I really hope Chilli and Usher either get back together or she settles instead of trying to find another him because sometimes you only get one real love in a lifetime and everyone else is what you have to settle with.

Temeka Raymond didn’t seem to happy about this and she told Chili to get over it… lol