When It’s Time To Move On!

It’s time to move on, said I’m tired of hanging on…

Right now you’re sitting back and asking yourself why? Why is this person acting a fool and treating me bad? Right now your sitting around trying to figure out how you can get things back to what they use to be. Right now your sitting down and replying the drama over and over in your mind trying to see what you did wrong to make that person behave like a fool? But how many times are you going to have that talk with yourself? How many times will you try to figure out a way to make that person be what YOU want them to be? How long will you allow yourself to feel guilty for another grown person actions? How many times will you turn your blind eyes to the truth?  How long will you deny yourself a chance at being happy because you’re trying to fix something that has been shattered? When will you wake up and face the truth? When it’s time to move on there’s nothing you can do about it but let it go!!!

Facing the truth isn’t easy. One day I had to wake up and realize you can’t change grown folks! You can’t make people be who you want them to be! Once a person is grown there’s nothing you can do about the way they carry themselves. You can’t shape and mold a person into this image you have in your mind of your ideal mate. You have to take folks for what they are; and if they’re not what you want you have to make a swift decision. Either you deal with it or keep it pimping. There’s no need in sitting around your whole life asking yourself why, why, why? It doesn’t matter why, if you really think about it. It only matters if you can tolerate who that person is. If you can’t put up with that person ways, behavior, abuse or whatever foolish shyt there doing. Then you have to wake and realize it’s time to move on. You can’t change them, you can’t beat them into who you want them to be, you can’t force your beliefs on them, the only thing you can do is let them find a spouse who can deal with them just the way they are.

We have to realize people up bringing will affect the way they carry themselves. It will affect their views on relationships and how they should treat people. If a man is brought up in a house where he saw certain things it will carry into his relationship, same as if a woman saw her mom pretty much strong arm her father it will be the way she runs her relationships. It’s nobody fault it’s just the way things are, you have some people who make it there business not to be like what they saw growing up but for the most part if that stuff is instilled in them they won’t change until they see fit.

We are in control of our happiness! I had to see that I couldn’t keep saying, “I just want to be happy” without doing something about it. I wrote about it here , we have the final say so over our lives, rather it be good or bad. It all falls back into our lap. As an adult we choose what we allow to take place in our lives unlike our children.  It’s unfortunate to them that you are bringing them up around dysfunctional things and forcing them to accept the things you accept that’s unfair.

Once you see you can’t change another person the better off you will be. Change comes from within and the only change you really need to make is the things that are going on in your life that you don’t like. Once I woke up and faced the truth, it didn’t matter why, it only matter how could I start living for me. How could I make myself happy, how could I get rid of the drama and all the long talks with myself, that was when I realized it was time to move on!!! Because the way I see it, I can do bad all by damn myself!  I don’t need any help from another person to bring me down.

Once you’re done with the talks and trying to figure out why, that will be the day you can truly start living your life and being happy.  Remember you can’t hold yourself responsible for another grown person actions. No matter what wrong you’ve done you don’t deserve to be mistreated by anybody, loving yourself if knowing when you deserve better and it’s knowing when it’s time to move on….

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