You have Karrine who made hoing famous, so famous almost every girl in the world wants to be the next girl who’s hoed her way to the top. But at what cost? Do you guys know that Superhead doesn’t have the money we think she has? Yeah I said it, that’s what I heard! In fact half the video models you see in the life style are barely making it. Oh lets not forget Amber Rose pretty woman life she was blessed with, she was yanked off the stripper pole and whisked into royalty. Yes the good life Kim K rocketed to stardom once her whack boring sex tape hit the net, and she has been working hard ever since.

But does hoing really pay?

I’m not trying to be a racist but I’m just keeping it real. Unless you have the right skin color, ho shyt will never pay for you. I mean yes it will get you on temporary; however once you’re ho well runs dry then your back in the hood looking silly. Remember it will always be a new ho, with some new puzzy to take your spot. So your hoing will only last a season, but the taint on your name will last a lifetime. In life all a woman has is her name, and once it tainted there’s no going back, there’s no do over’s or erasing the past. After a woman has tainted her name the only thing she can do is settle! Settle for what she can get, meaning relationships, jobs, money, whatever because she ruined her chances. You say no, let me tell why it’s true. Firstly your past follows you no matter where you go. Anytime you openly tell your business your past follows you, you can’t spill the beans and change it up later.

Yes we all should get second chance to do right, but remember your second time around will be harder because of what you’ve created the first time around. So if you think you are going to ho your way to the top and stay there, think again, your rain will only last a season then it’s the next hot ho turn. Unless you are investing your money wisely you will be right back in the same boat you started from. Hoing does not pay, it only gives you temporary funding that will run out, there’s only going to be so many people you can sleep with before they move on; then what?  Even being a stripper will only last for so long, once your body goes, your money goes. Your prices you get from hoing now, will go down soon then you’ll be doing the same things at cheaper rates once you get worn out.

I mean lets think like a Smart Chick for a minute; you will eventually want a husband or a man. Maybe you will get tired of busting down after a while. What will you do when the money goes? Yes you have a closet full of the finest clothes and bags but your bank account is as dry as your used up puzzy? Who will you run to? You have sold yourself for pennies; told all your business and now all you want to do is find somebody who is down for you and will treat you right.

But….. You have this past, and you don’t want to be judge because now I am a change woman. I don’t ho any more, I deserve to be loved. What are you going to do??? Somebody please tell me something different outside of settling for what you can get!

I’m in the industry and as a woman, it’s hard to get respect from men because they think your like this Kat ho. Looking for a quick buck to get on, I have to work ten times harder to get noticed because I refused to whore out myself! I don’t care how good the hoing game looks, it is not all what it seems. When these ladies go out for jobs, there expected to sleep with the casting directors, the rappers and the crew because they did it before. I don’t care what anyone says; once you get a name for yourself no matter how much you’ve change your ways; it will be somebody somewhere expecting you to do them to. Who can you blame but yourself? The disrespect that will come later after you’re trying to walk right. The side eyes and whispers, the I remember when, the people you run into who you’ve done and the bridges you’ve burned in the process is not worth it.

If you have to ho to make money, maybe the career path your trying to take is not for you. Get another hustle because hoing only pays for a season. And most black ho’s are dumb as bricks, take this Kat Ho for example her words not mine!

DX: You just said Jae Millz himself and his crew paid to have sex with you. How much did they pay?

Kat Stacks: The first time I met Millz was through this other square b*tch, because she didn’t know what the f*ck she was doing with him. I snatched his number from her phone and we started talking. I told him it was $650 for each hour, so he was like, “Oh, let me see you in person.” We met up and he let me up to his crib. He paid for like seven hours the first time I met him. After that, about three weeks later he called me up again in Miami to bring some more girls over. I brought two girls over and he paid for them too. Gudda Gudda was there too  {From my math (650×7 Hrs= 4550.00)}

DX: Where was the initial stand, like “I’m tired of being treated like this, so now I’ma put y’all on blast”?
Kat Stacks: Because [one] night I got left and was stranded downtown. I had to call people I used to go to school with to come pick me up. The cab was like over 100 dollars. I was pissed off. I was really mad that night and Lil Twist left me stranded. I started talking shit on Twitter and everybody was [stopped talking to me]. Jae Millz, the next day, started texting me bullsh*t [like] “Take care of your child, you b*tch,” and all that shit. So I was like, “Alright, I’ma just expose this ni*ga, if he want act stupid and cut me off.”

Now tell me this; if your charging 650$ a hour for azz and there paying for 5-10 hours at a time how in the hell you don’t have enough money to pay a 100$ for a cab? Bish you #hoingbackwards, this is the main reason why I say hoing don’t pay; fast money leaves just as fast as you get it.

I was just warming up to R&B songstress Teairra Mari hood-rat anthem Sponsor now I look up and here’s some more ho shyt’ WTF! Is this all the world has come to? Women taking there clothes off to make a buck? I guess this is the rappers fault to? I mean this was pointless in my opinion and it’s just that my opinion. I feel like she could have saved this and work off her ability to preform and sing and who cooks in the kitchen in there underwear. Here’s her spin on on Usher’s Urban smash ‘Hey Daddy’. Peep her risqué video for her version of the song above.

Okay I’ll say this; beauty speaks volumes for a woman until she opens up her mouth then, she starts to look ugly. She starts to look so ugly that no matter how beautiful she is nobody notices. I know I am not the only women who wonders why women who are drop dead gorgeous can’t keep a man, the only answer I can come up with is. “If you ugly on the inside, ya ugly on the outside.” I find myself to be an attractive woman; I mean U See Me, however my looks are just a bonus to who I am as a woman. I don’t try to get by in life by my looks or my body either which I do have. When I met a guy I want him to fall for who I am as a women, not what I look like.  Truth be told as I wrote in another post I got hit by a van at a very young age and it messed up my arm, that day showed me that in a blink of a eye everything for you can change. The scar is there but it’s not a big deal for me any longer although at first I thought my life was over. I couldn’t imagine being a woman who gets by off her looks alone, if something happened to you and it disfigured you what would you have then?

With this being said, I don’t care how fine of a woman you think you are, and how big your booty is you need to have some substance in your foundation. Please don’t walk through life like your God gift because of your looks because your not. Do it because it’s what he wrote in his word. No matter what you look like are how small or big your booty is we all our God gift to men. Looks fade, substances never dies!

Now back to what I wanted to talk about, watch what you say as a woman. So you think it’s okay to fluck like a ninja? You feel you can be like a boy? You feel you want a man with money only? So you say you don’t fluck with no broke ninja’s? You say it’s okay to sleep around because the men do it?

Shut the fluck up already with the Ronny ho quotes. Listen every time you open your mouth and say some ho shyt like that; you ruin your chances of being more to a man than his fluck buddy. No man and I mean no man outside of Kanye West will be with a woman spilling out ho quotes like there cute. I mean yes, a man will sleep with you as long as you let him but getting a ring on it please. As much as I love Beyonce even she doesn’t go by half the shyt she sings about, in fact I bet she is very passive and submissive towards her husband. It’s not cute; I will say it again it’s not cute to say these things in public. Okay it’s the way you feel, I can dig that but some things are better left unsaid. You don’t have to go out saying The nigga’s do it so can I! First off two wrongs don’t make a right and secondly every time you say stuff like that you take away an option.

I laughed so hard on Sandra Rose because them prefect patties was sitting there talking about I got, this, this, and that and he has to have this, this and that. Not realizing every time you try to materialize a man, or put a list out in the open that men has written you off as nothing more than a fluck. Don’t no man want to be with an over bearing head strong, you need have this or else type of women. One of the ladies even said I get the pick of the litter, no you don’t because a man that has all his own doesn’t want to be in a relationship with somebody like that. Then you wonder why he goes to Ke Ke at the Walmart because she knows how to say all the right things out of her mouth.

I mean we are all grown, however I’m just keeping it real. Sometimes we wonder why we keep getting played over by men. The reason is not because of the man most of the time. When you met someone and guess what we all have deal breakers, you never know what that mans deal breaker is. So sitting there talking about you think women can sleep around like a man, and you only date dudes with money is not pretty. Every time I hear Lisa Raye kick into her Diamond mode and say stuff like this.

LisaRaye On People labeling her of a gold digger?The perception that they have of me — I could give less than a damn about. I say this to them. I dug for gold in high school. I’m a platinum girl now. I’m an international person. I don’t even like taking out the trash. I don’t dig for anything. I don’t have a garden either. Every relationship that you embark on is some kind of business relationship. You got to look at it that way. You got to protect yourself, not just from the man next door, or Uncle Sam, or the IRS, you got to protect yourself from anyone you’re in business with. So you better look for someone that’s going somewhere who’s trying to take you with them. Money attracts money. Power attracts power. You ain’t got to tell the white girls that. Look at Jackie Kennedy Onassis. She stepped from Kennedy to Onassis. Do you think she stepped from Kennedy to Burger King man? No.

I shake my head, I get her point and in life it’s not what you say it’s how you say it, a simple “I want a guy with as much drive and ambition as me, someone who can bring just as much to the table as I can, someone who treats me good, is into family and a man of God. I have always been a determined woman, and I just want a mate who matches my drive so we can build and grow together.” Can anyone read gold digger into that statement I just made? I mean to me it’s saying all the same things just the right way. What man in his right mind would want a women who says I don’t want no broke nigga, because even if he’s rich nothing is guaranteed in life. Money comes and goes and a man needs to feel if he fell off his woman will still be there.  And let me not get on Stacey Dash ho quotes I smashed on the first date, even if so you; do not repeat something like that. Now every time a man approaches you, you will have to wonder is it because he wants me or is it because I said I give out puzzy like government cheese?

And for the life of me, I read yesterday on another blog “we all done some type of ho shyt as women” #wheretheydothatat? I will never fess up to nothing in this life no proof no confession I ain’t Usher! I am just saying it’s not what you say it’s how you say it!

While you’re sitting there thinking it’s cute the men are laughing at you.

Well Khia always pops in with her Ronny Ho quotes, says a man can have as many wives as he can afford. She also says she is waiting for Lil Wayne, yeah okay.

“I’m just letting him sow all his royal oats and have fun. I’m his biggest fan…I don’t want no babies I’m gonna let them have all the babies that they want. He’s the king, he can have all the wives that he can take care of….when you have as much money as Lil Wayne and Tiger Woods you can have all the wives that you want.”

Moving past her infatuation with Weezy, Florida’s finest says that everyone’s favorite Harajuku Barbie is nothing more than an actress. When asked her thoughts on Nicki Minaj, she at first says that if Lil Wayne “likes her, she loves her” but goes on to diss her saying,

“She’s an actor, she majored in drama…right? She’s acting. She’s always in character, I don’t know if it’s early her. Like everyone knows it’s me. It’s Khia, I’m Khia…”

So you want to date somebodies husband? Well do it at your own risk most states are adopting laws where wives can sue you for emotional distress. I don’t know I think more states should pick up this law to keep men from straying, I know if I could be sued by a mans wife I’ll pass because it ain’t worth paying for.  Cynthia Shackelford, 60, used a little-known law in her native state of North Carolina to bring a suit against Anne Lundquist, the lover whom she claims wrecked her 33-year marriage to husband Allan.

Lundquist was charged with “alienation of affections” – or interfering in a marriage – in one of the few American states that allow someone to sue over such a clause.

She was ordered to pay the $9 million in damages to Shackelford by a court in Greensboro, N.C., last week.

“I had not a clue that Allan would wander,” Shackelford told local newspaper the Greensboro News & Record. “He kept telling me ‘Oh, she’s just a friend. There’s no affair. I love you.’”

The spurned spouse, who gave up her teaching career to look after her former husband and their two children, said she hoped the ruling would deter other would-be mistresses of married men.

“We would like for people to respect the sanctity of marriage,” Shackelford said.

“We wanted a number high enough that it would keep other people from … going after other married spouses.”

I wonder was his dyck worth nine million dollars??????

We all remember the infamous quote from Yung Berg “I don’t do dark butts” yeah he went on to say he likes light skin women only. And since then his career has tanked faster than the World Trade buildings. His light bright ex girlfriend is putting all his business on blast claims he did get pistol whipped and slapped. Why did he have to come from Chicago, I mean all these street thugs hanging on the corner and he couldn’t get a couple of them for protection. Now his ex girl a video ho and yes I said HO! Anytime you will leak a sex tape of yourself doing things only you and that person you where doing them with out. Then your a ho to me!  Yung Berg Sex Tape was leaked by his former girlfriend Jenna. Jenna used her twitter to expose Yung Berg for trying to cover up that he got robbed, and in the process she put out a preview of a sex tape between the two.

Ladies please take your daughters and train them up right. I am so sick of this hoodrat shyt it’s making my butt hurt.

Okay why did Stacey Dash feel the need to brag about being a jump off. “I slept with them on the first date and married them” yet she says she’s been married three times. 11 months is the longest she stayed married, i am starting to give all these pretty women a side eye. Sometimes you can’t have them both. I don’t know maybe I am a little to old fashion but I would have never admitted to that even if it was the truth.

Well I thought it was very interesting and I knew the mother of this girl would take action against the school. I think going to school in leggings is a bit much however we can not tell people how to dress there kids. Your thoughts~~if this was your daughter what would you do?

So you mean to tell me this man is engaged to be married and women are tattooing his name on there body? I posted a picture of a girl who tatted up this man name on her arm here yet his girlfriend popped off on twitter on him and he fired back. Chad said yeah I cheated because you ain’t handling your business right. Well lets just say this should have been talked about off of twitter because I think he was out of line. Either way I guess she can have the laugh because he has her name tattooed on him, check out the foolishness below.

Maybe he should re check his twits for spelling before he pops off.