I have pounder this question a few times in my own mind. Chivalry is dead and probably never coming back, courting is the thing of the past. Fellas ask yourself this; the last date you had; did you open her car door when she got in and out? How about open the door to the restaurant so she can walk in first? Did you pull out her seat first then took yours? How about expected her to reach in her pocket to pay? Let’s be truthful here, how many men still do the above? Not many, I have been on dates with guys who opened my car door, but that’s far in between.
Tell me this when a woman who feels she deserves to be treated a certain way speaks on this, why is she labeled tripping, crazy are too much? Why can’t a woman speak up on how your grown a—should be treating her. The way I see it, men; especially grown men should know how to treat a woman. So a woman should really never have to speak to you about your actions but this is the real world and people don’t use common sense anymore.
Where is the disconnect here? Is the women at fault for accepting way to less or is it the men fault for not stepping up and taking the easy road in life. I can agree that we all are different people and have different expectations but bottom line respect should not be an option but a must. Men should respect a woman, wants, needs, time, mind and body and vise a verse. So who’s to blame for the mess of a dating world where men expect the most out of a woman without giving out anything in return but a meal and call back?