Sometimes relationships can be like a re-run that you’re sick of watching but you don’t change because you’re waiting to see that one really funny part. You can flip on the TV and the same ole thing is showing and it pisses you off, but the next day you’re glad they showed it because you needed to see something. Isn’t it funny how you can predict someone actions, thoughts and what they will do next?
You sit and tell yourself you’re sick of going through the same ole thang, but convince yourself at the same time to give that person another chance to change. As I’m typing this I’m thinking to myself, its sounds really stupid to stay with a person when you know them. Somehow we get caught up in a person words so much that even when you know better you hope for better. I know I’m not the only person who woke up feeling like damn I hate this, why can’t this person change. Why can’t this person do right, why, why, why; it’s like having no cable and one channel. You already know what that person is going to do before they do it. You already know what they will say or how they will respond, you know that you’re stuck going nowhere with that person.
My life re-run for twelve seasons and I can’t even remember one good episode, when a person shows you who they are please believe it. Don’t hold on to maybe they will see, maybe they will grow, maybe they will change. Grown folks don’t change until they get ready to, don’t waste your life stuck in a re-run.