Now I know I said I was turning over a new leaf and coming together with sisterly love and all. But is that a Chinese woman or Lil Kim in this pic with Ray-J? Kimberly Jones know she needs her azz beat she has never been this light in her life. She must have talked to Micheal Jackson and borrowed some of his skin bleach creme that he uses for his condition I mean come on now.

 Well Fella’s the future brings new things and sometimes when it’s really dark in the club and you see a banging girl, big booty, some big ole titties and you want to smash—remember I warned you this fine piece of woman might be a SHE!
 

 Now I’m sorry to spill it to you fella’s but These are men, the one in the blue had a sex change and she is now a woman. However they look like 1000% born woman, with all these beef going around saying Bow Wow slept with a tranny, I thought well what if he didn’t know? You could be easily fooled and they suck you off, give the best head you ever recived and than tell you there a S-HE. The sick part is the lady below says dudes don’t care that she use to be a man they still fuck with her. On her myspace page she is hugged up with all kinds of men so I believe. She went to war with mediatakeout.com last year when they exposed her. She also said she has been in countless number of videos so fella’s beware when your out or maybe you can blame it on henny. smh. 

 Pulled from mediatakeout.com

“ GUAMGRL202
AS WE ALL KNOW !!! THERE ARE E-MAILS CLAIM N THAT I HAVE HAD A SEX CHANGE AND MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEATEN ME UP AND IM SUEING THE COURTS AND COPS… ITS BULLSHYT.. AS I STATED IN THE FORUMS.. YEAH THE PICS ARE OF ME.. ITS NO SHAME IN WHO I WAS AND WHO I AM TODAY. BUT TO LIE IN THE E-MAIL ABOUT MY WELL BEING IS FOLLISHNESS… THANKS FOR THE EXTRA EXPOSURE… ITS WORKING IN MY FAVOR. HBO E-MAILED ME LAST NIGHT. SO I FEEL THE NEED TO ELABORATE ON THIS ISSUE. THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE LUV FROM PEEPS THAT KNOW ME AND IM OK. THE STORY IS NOT OF ME AND IM STILL HERE DOING ME..LOL SO TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS… KARMA IS A BYTCH!! OH HERE IS THE LINK TO THE REAL STORY http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,23166157-5001021,00.html

WELL… THE PICS ABOVE ARE OF ME..

WWW.MYSPACE.COM/GUAMCUNT

BUT WHAT I WILL SAY IS THANKS FOR THE EXPOSURE

ITS NO SHAME THAT IS WHO I WAS AND I AM ME NOW… THE STORY BEHIND IT IS BULL SHYT..LOL

also… its no secret… i dont hide from guys who i am… and i dont go around fooling men.. thats not what i transitioned for.. and i dont live in london.. i live in washington d.c. !!!!

ohh yeah.. to ones question.. where does the money come from… lol….. like lil kim said.. dont worry about how i get it.. just know that i get it… jealousy is a disease.. and yall looking realll sick over der..
—————
www.myspace.com/guamcunt”

 Be careful fella’s never trust a big but and a smile..

BERMUDA,



This is her live in the flesh looking like a lady.

pic’s pulled from mediatake.com, sandrarose.com and myspace/guamcunt
Poison – Bell Biv Devoe

I had a great discussion over at msbitchie house about strippers and it made me think of this post, Everything That Glitters Ain’t Gold.

So you see her she riding slick, her purse is top of the line and she has the best weave money can buy. All of sudden you wonder off and wish that was you; you wish you had a nice car and a big diamond ring like her. You tell yourself it must be nice, but the truth is how do we know if it’s nice. How do we know if she’s happy? Material things don’t make you happy. We don’t know what she goes through to keep that lifestyle up. It may seem like you want to walk in her stilettos but do you.
 
After going back and forward with some strippers on the site making things seem so sweet in the tip drill world I ran across this on global grind on Ms Brooke page,

“No matter what anyone glamorizes about stripping–it’s not a healthy lifestyle. Too often we get consumed with what someone or something can do for us..instead of working hard to earn what we want. The fast money, flashy cars, and ballers are all over and done with, what do we have to show for ourselves? 3 Louie bags and butt implants? What happened to a purpose-driven life? *This is not a stab in the dark at Brooke or any other dancer. So please do without the hate replies, to each it’s own : )” –Anonymous”

It’s the truth, you see somebody you feel has it good but really there worse off than you; yeah they have the shinny rings and the flashy life but there unhappy. I know I get upset with I see women like Ms Rose come up, but after today I convinced that just because things seems to be good don’t mean there good after all. We don’t know what drama is going on, are even if she really wants to be there.  After reading a commenter explain her husband caught HIV from a stripper and gave it to her that blew my mind. You never know what’s going on in people life, and just because something looks good doesn’t mean it’s good for you.

I can personally admit to fronting for people like everything was cool but it was all bad, I was praying for a way to get out.

Always remember, Everything That Glitter’s Ain’t Gold…

I believe that most of the women around the world have been brain washed, over the weekend I carried on conversations about life. And I’m convinced that half the women in America have been brain washed into believing that they have to settle for less.

Now my first pet peeve is how black women keep screaming about a man shortage, and how they have to share men. This is the stupidest shit I heard by far. First of all I do not believe there is a man shortage, I believe that this has been brain washed into our heads to settle for anything that comes are way. Who said that we all had to date black men anyway? Why would you lower you standards to share a man instead of dating outside of your race? I would get wifed up by a white men before I settle to share a black men any day. I’m not being racist here, but a black man will run and get them an Amber in a minute. So do we sit around screaming there are not enough men so we have to share and fight. Please that’s some bullshit the system have brain washed into the black women heads and I ain’t buying it.

Secondly I hate when women say “I don’t owe her anything unless she my family or friends.” More brain washed bullshit. First of all, we should want more for ourselves than to be a man’s side piece of ass. So no you don’t know his wife, but the fact that you know he’s married should be enough for you tell that ninja to keep on moving. Just because a dog comes sniffing don’t mean you let him get a lick. Send his trifling ninja azz back to his owner because if we as women stood as one and did this, it would be less cheating.  So no you don’t owe his wife nothing, but just out of the sake of sisterhood we should want to turn down the advances of a married man, one because we are sticking together and two you should know you deserve better. I always tell my friends it is not my responsibility to make a married ninja happy period. Don’t come around my way talking about how unhappy you are—because I don’t give a fluck. I will not make it my business to make another woman’s men happy period.

And my last pet peeve even though I have more is the misused word Hater, first of all just because I don’t like something does not make me a hater. Because I don’t like the fact that certain things are happening does not make me a hater. Just because I said I don’t like her outfit, shoes, hair (etc) does not make me a hater. This is another form of brain washing, it makes people believe even when there dead wrong people are hating on them. If I don’t want to worship a ex-whore than I don’t have to! That’s my prerogative, I don’t have to like the fact that she used to be a bi-stripper but found the Lord now. It’s like okay good for her, next—-that does not make me a hater. It does not make me a hater when I call something like a see it. If I see a woman that used to be a call girl and I call her a whore that does not make me a hater. The term for it is called opinions and we all have them. Hating it what people do to Beyonce, say they don’t like the girl and never met her. But if somebody doesn’t like her music that’s there opinion it does not make them a hater, so let’s stop this brain washing that’s going on.

I was crossing Bossip.com when I came across this post Why Do Black Women Hate On Each Other, Essence Magazine did a article about this topic read below.

“When people learned that we wanted to photograph Iman, Taraji P. Henson and Serena Williams for our April cover, the comments started immediately. “Oh, they’ll never get along” was the refrain most often heard. It was as if the notion that three beautiful and accomplished Black women might come together for a joint cover shoot was just too outrageous to entertain.

Yet the murmurs weren’t totally without precedent. After all, Black women’s relationships with one another have often been fraught with tension. Truth is, we are sometimes our own worst enemy. Wall Street executive Carla A. Harris told us recently she had noticed that in the workplace Black women are sometimes the ones derailing other sisters. Certainly we’ve been guilty of tearing each other down in our personal relationships as well, even fighting over a sorry man who tried to play us against each other. But with all the challenges facing us, it’s more important than ever that we as Black women make a conscious decision to support, love and affirm one another at work, in our communities, in our churches and in our organizations. It’s time for us to wake up to the fact that our problem isn’t between us; it’s with all the forces that teach us to undermine one another instead of pulling together to strengthen us all. Whatever happened to lifting each other as we climb?

Now, I’m not saying we’re all going to get along all the time, but if we can cherish and accept our sisters as we would want to be cherished and accepted, we will go a long way in setting a new tone in our often-fractured relationships. If we can stop the sideways glancing when one of us walks into a room, if we can stop the head-to-toe assessment of others in the club, if we can stop calling people out behind their backs-while smiling in their faces-if we can put an end to all that, we can start to reclaim the spirit of our sisterhood.

Let’s begin by greeting one another with open arms and minds and stop assuming that we’re out to get one another. The next time a sister you don’t know walks into a room, the next time a Black woman you’ve never met starts working at your job, go out of your way to introduce yourself and give her a compliment. You just may make a loyal new friend.”

Now my take on this, firstly I hate that Bossip always puts a color on a topic. Women in general have this problem, and let me say how I feel; women are like cats—very sneaky and un-trust worthy.  I won’t put a color on it because in my eyes it’s women in general.  This goes all the way back to the bible, women have always been out for themselves. Why is this, I think it’s in some women nature or the way they were raised? I do think that some women are genuine–but for the most part you cannot trust them.  I do feel like we have a lot of unnecessary hate between women–and that goes beyond tearing down looks. I read in the article about a brother pitting two sister against each other. But in my eyes he is only doing what he is allowed to do, when will we learn that we as women have the power in the world? If a man that is married comes sniffing your way–just because you don’t know his wife doesn’t give you the right to lay down with a married men. When will we as women see that these men are only doing what they know they can do, and that’s have there cake and eat it to.

Men are not as dumb as we want to think, they know how to pimp out the game and yes I think we should stand as one. But isn’t standing as one means, not lying with someone else’s man? Not tearing down someone else, not under minding someone to get what you want? I think women in general are brain washed and believe that they have to look out for themselves and they can care less who they step on getting there. And white women do it, Asian women etc, this in the nature of most women, unless your raised better and it will not change. It is what it is—-nothing can be done about it—the brain washing has already taken place.

With so much ho shyt going on in the world I had to come to conclusion that most of the men on this earth have lost all there mind. Last night I was thinking to myself, all this talk about ho’s need love to and people make mistakes and her past is her past, it made me think of this post. Do you want to know your partners past? Does there past even matters to you?

For me, yes it matters—I want to know where a dude comes from, what type of morals and values he has imbedded in him.  I need to know if he has a criminal history or if he has multiple baby mommas. So yes if I hook up with a new dude, yes I will ask question about his past and expect the truth from him. Hell people are crazy these days and I feel like it’s too much stuff going on in the world to say let the past be the past. I think you should know who you are getting yourself involved with period. I’m not a man and don’t think like one, but as a woman I think you need to know who you are letting into your house and especially if there lying in your bed.

I know guys say they don’t care if a girl has a past because it is just that, the past. But at the end of the day sometimes your past can creep back up and hunt you. I think we should be honest about our past because this is a small world and you never know who you will bump into. I can think of a time when my cousin was dating this girl and she tried to act all innocent and pure. Well she came to our family reunion and she bump into one of my other cousins that she was busting down with.  She was so embarrassed and I felt bad for her, but that showed me as a woman-you really can’t be out there like that because you never know who knows who. My cousin gave all the low down how she be busting him down and how she was known on the block-I couldn’t believe it myself because she seemed so sweet. That taught me that whores have a way of trying to cover up who they are, to get what they want. So all I can say is be careful because the backyards you roam in now my come back and bite you in the ass once you get your life right.

What are your thoughts? Should you let your partner past be there past?

Yesterday I was in a debate over at necolebitchie.com, I know I’ve wrote countless number of articles on all this ho shyt that is taking over. But now I feel as we have grown as a nation to love women who are loose. I spotted this blog post over at global grind and ms bitchie’s site

“It seems that women (especially White women) who love to drop their panties and misbehave are being rewarded, adored and praised a lot these days—especially on this site.  —Katie Rost

“From the queen of hanging out hoo-ha, Britney Spears, to the new GG celebrity bloggers Aubrey O’Day and Governor Spitzer’s former call girl Ashley Dupré to Kim Kardashian and the current fascination with Kanye’s girlfriend, Amber Rose.  Yes indeed! Mis-behaving, raunchy vixens are getting ALL of the love….”

I’m new to Global Grind, but when I logged on and saw the governer’s ho on the front page I got pissed, Firstly everyday you have Kanye flaunting his Pretty Woman around Paris. Then all the ho’s seem to get the love, and say it was there past but there still making money. So I couldn’t believe it, especially when it’s so many hardworking sisters that trying to make it and do the right things it’s like wtf. What’s the message were sending to our youth? Are we telling them to whore around and you can get ahead faster?

Then I log on the next day and there is Aburey naked—and I couldn’t take it. I saddens me that the world has mainstreamed hoing to be the best thing since slice bread. Why is it that the Good Girls Finish Last now? The guys have abandon them for bad girls and it seems there in the media more than Oprah and Michelle Obama.

What has this world come to that we have taken what women were and said that’s no longer good. The media now only promotes these images of video vixan’s and I will save her from her life of hoing.

Am I the only one who feels this way? I mean they ripped me a new one on Ms Bitches blog for calling Amber a whore, but does your past even matter to a man anymore?

Sometimes it’s the little things you do in a relationship that drives your partner wild for you. We all know expensive gifts are good, but it’s the little things that we think are not as important is what most of our partners would prefer more of. When I say the little things—it could be when you smile at your partner at the right time that touches them. The way you come up your lady and kiss her on the forehead softly- and it sends a tingle through her body.  It’s the way you look at him while he’s driving to let him know you’re going to put it on him when you get in. It could be the way she rubs your back at the right moment to let you know everything will be alright.

Let’s face the facts we all want to feel special within our relationship and doing the little things daily can achieve this goal for your spouse.

A sweet text message that comes at the right time can pick up your spouse bad day. Leaving a sweet song on your partners voice mail can make them happy-(this may seem high schoolish but it does make your partner smile). Whatever it is that makes your partner happy without you even knowing it. I’m not trying to over load you guys on Dave Hollister but when I listened to this song Baby Do Those Things, I thought wow it is the little things you do without putting any effort into it that makes your partner feel special. So I think you should ask your partner what are the little things you do that makes them happy so you can give them more. Relationships are hard work and it’s no walk in the park! It takes dedication, understanding and a whole lot of patience to bear it. But it can be the little things that make it seem all worth putting up with the b-s that love brings—lol

What do you guys think is it the little things that make you happy? Are do you prefer the big things?

Baby Do Those Things - Dave Hollister

I wrote a post last month called Make Her Feel Like A Woman, now I wanted to give the men a turn to feel special as well.

Now men are built differently than women, there not soft or emotional like us (supposedly). They want to be hard and stay in control of things. Men want to feel like King Tut when they arrive home and feel like there home is there castle. Even though men pretend to be tuff and unemotionally built, deep down inside they need love to. They need hugs and kisses, they need to feel special and wanted by there lady. The most important thing to know  about men mostly— there all different from one to another! What one man likes, the next may not. Your man may want a home cooked meal on the table while your friend’s guy cooks for her. What we as women have to do is stop getting caught up into other people’s relationships. Her reality may not be your reality-it’s life—that does not make her dude a better man because he cooks her meals. It does not make your guy a terrible boyfriend/husband because he wants a home cooked meal on the table.

It boils down to the difference in the men, there all made different–even down to sex. You can ride a guy a certain way, but the next dude might not like it. So getting all mad about what your friend has at home is pointless. Staying focus on what you are building at home should be whats most important. If you have a good dude and he is treating you right-then look at him as the best thing walking. So what if he wants a home cooked meal and he asks for back rubs, so what your girl doesn’t have to do all of that–as long as you’re happy do what works for you.  Remember everything that glitters ain’t gold so you should cherish what you have. So here are some tips on how making you’re boo Feel Like A Men.

1. A door greet- meeting your guy at the door when he gets home can make him feel special especially if you have on some lace boy shorts and some Blue High Heels.
2. Saying I love you- just like we want to hear it, so does your guy. Telling him how much you love him well make him feel wanted.
3. A home cooked meal- there’s not a guy around who would say they would turn down a nice home cooked meal from there lady. Even if you don’t know how to cook you can pick up a cook book and try. It’s the thought that counts—so what if doesn’t taste that great—they’ll still eat it-lol.
4. Less Mouth- sometimes we women can be mouthy and complain a lot, a man’s home should be his place of peace. Coming home to a woman who’s running off at the mouth can be less pleasing. Sometimes it’s the reason some guys don’t come home until late because they don’t want to hear your mouth. So being less mouthy can be helpful, our men have it hard and have to deal with a lot—so the last thing we should do is wear down on his nerve. Find ways to express yourself in a non-confrontational manner, if your guy just got off and you want to talk. Let him sit down and relax some before you start in on him, let him wind down with whatever relaxes him and than let him know you want to talk. Talk I said—yelling and screaming is unnecessary because at the end of the day you have to talk it out.
5. Sitting on his lap-this seems so small but when your guy is sitting down in his chair, come over to him and sit on his lap and give him a hug and kiss. Tell him how much you need him, how lucky you are to have him. This also makes a man feel wanted and like he is handling his business with you.
6. Time apart- we all need it, let him go hang out with the boys within reason—this will make him happy.
7. Gifts-just like we love it, they love it to—as you know I’m not the tricking kind of girl-but if you are out and see a nice pair of jeans, shirt or cologne pick it up for your boo to make him feel like you were on his mind.
8. Talk dirty- rather it’s through a text message, phone conversation, ear whisper or right before sex- let him know how he be rocking that shyt. Men need there ego’s boasted up-let him know how he puts it down on you or tell him all the nasty little things you want to do to him.
9. Great sex, Conversation, and Be real-I combined the last three things together because they are really self explanatory. Having great sex on the regular with your guy will keep him happy and coming back for more. Holding long talks and conversations with your dude keeps both your mind stimulated. You should be his best friend and he should be yours, make him feel that he can talk you about anything. Be his shoulder when he needs to lean on somebody, be his ear when he needs somebody to just listen to him, be his friend that he can trip out with and be silly, show him that he can talk about anything with you—rather it be what happened on 106-N-Park or what’s going on in the world. Stimulate his mind with conversations about how you are feeling and ask him how he’s feeling. Be real with him, if you’re not happy tell him, if you’re not feeling whatever tell him-it might hurt him at that moment-but it will damn sure hurt him worse to know you’re on the low with another man giving him his goods. Be real with yourself, if this man is the type of dude that wants a home cooked meal on the table don’t pretend to be that girl when your not. The thing about being fake is, you only can front for so long before the real you comes out. Learn him before you jump in, don’t start shyt you can’t finish either, how you start out is how your gonna have to hold out.

These are just a few things I came up with, Ladies what would you add? Fella’s what did I leave out, because I’m just guessing?

Another ho scores big, after sucking Hugh Hefner dyck for the last two to three years and busting down God knows who else.  Kendra has booked her a husband, football player Hank Baskett—well I’ll be damn if this ho shyt ain’t paying off. Kanye, Hank, Mike and many more men have taken on wifeing up hoes to the next level. And I ain’t hating-I’m just saying maybe I need to rethink my career path and go bust down a few ninja’s.

‘Girls Next Door’ reality show star Kendra Wilkinson sure moves quickly!

She just recently moved out of the Playboy mansion and she’s already engaged, planning her wedding and picking out baby names.

Kendra confesses that her and her Philadelphia Eagles wide receiver fiancé Hank Baskett have been busy picking out baby names because she’s ready to have kids after the wedding.

“My first initial is K and my middle name is Leigh, so we were thinking of Kaleigh,” she says. “And he’s Hank Baskett III, so of course I’m going to have a Hank Baskett IV!”

Speaking about her upcoming June wedding, Kendra added that “It’s going to be a wedding – not a Playboy mansion party,” and that her ex Hugh Hefner will walk her down the aisle.

Kendra does seem much tamer since she announced her engagement back in November, she’s kept the flashing to a minimum and seems to be ready to just settle down and play wifey.

What are your thoughts on their union? Do you think they have what it takes to last?